@tiffanyspeaks0: I became the friend people stopped telling good news to. And I did not even know until the silence got loud enough to hear. The fix is embarrassingly simple. When someone shares something — just say “that is amazing. Tell me more.” Let their moment breathe without making it about yours. And if an emotion like jealousy shows up in that moment — that is valid. But their announcement is not the venue for your processing. Let them enjoy it. Schedule that conversation for later. If this hit something — book a 1:1 session with me. Link in bio. #TiffanySpeaks #EmotionalIntelligence #OneUpping #ListenMore

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cadence625
Cadence ❤️ :
what!!! you look like queen Charlotte, India Amarteifio!!!!
2026-08-05 15:09:28
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omuahbecky
Asein Rebecca omuah :
i am guilty of this. i have been trying to change
2026-08-05 09:06:34
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prex_xiee
prex_xiee💎🧚 :
The fact that they don't know what they're doing is bad
2026-08-25 09:04:11
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youcanneverbetoopretty
Your Grace :
One upping…learnt a new phrase today. ✨
2026-08-05 06:28:01
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iamzainabafolabi
Becoming with Zainab :
Thank you for this. Many of us do it unconsciously. It takes an intentional effort to stop ❤️
2026-08-05 07:28:43
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the_adua_hameedat
Ha Mee Dat :
There is intent and then, there is impact. Your intent might be good but it doesn't usually erase the bad impact.
2026-08-05 07:37:55
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bellooluwafemi17
fm_exquisiteevents :
It’s a good reflection of you to know it rubs off on them negatively and working to allow them enjoy their moment.
2026-08-04 20:50:46
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joseph.arastus
Joseph Arastus :
thank God you know now, just simple I'm happy for you it works
2026-08-05 09:11:43
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becomingdrflorence
Dr_Florence💗✨ || Med student :
I keep learning new things😭. One upping?
2026-08-04 21:19:47
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cal_mhe_naza
Henrietta Rose :
Hey… I never knew it was wrong o.. i thought I was flowing
2026-08-05 18:30:02
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rehab.for.jesus
Rehab for Jesus 🔥 :
I'm guilty of this, and I'm trying to change
2026-08-26 15:59:55
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orphilia.love
Orphilia Love :
Thank you for this insight ma'am Great Help!
2026-08-28 09:00:36
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artistrybylolade
Lolade💄💋 :
I am so guilty. Thanks for sharing ❤️🥰
2026-09-02 12:13:23
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adunniadesplace01
Adunniade’s Place.💎 :
Hmm! Learning.
2026-08-20 13:55:48
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the_short_black_goddess
M🌸 :
Also when they are sharing their problems. Just listen and dont table your problems at that point.
2026-08-05 20:53:00
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wife_mariam_duntemar
MARIAM | Building DUNTEMAR :
I’m really learning to listen more
2026-08-05 22:05:05
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reginanbestman
Gigi Best🦋 :
I pray I always remember this
2026-08-21 18:03:12
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mihz.sparkler
mihz sparkler :
I use to do that.....and to me I was genuinely connecting. glad I unlearned it
2026-08-05 08:21:46
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zik_0117
Isaac🖤 :
I just have to follow you
2026-08-04 21:58:35
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real_ladyy
real_ladyy :
True
2026-08-04 21:19:32
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somto_joy_
Joy🦋 :
My friend does that a lot, i cant tell her a story without her cutting me short with her own
2026-08-21 17:18:54
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barbaraaddae1
Barbs_atelier :
Thanks for sharing this
2026-08-04 22:05:24
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jumaiglee
jumaiglee :
OmG I’m guilty, didn’t know it was bad 😩 now I know and work on it
2026-08-20 11:32:07
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ginadigitalhub
GINADIGITALHUB :
I hear you
2026-08-04 22:18:49
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