@lifeinfocuswithsuttida: Stop chasing someone who isn’t even choosing you. #HealingJourney #nervoussystemhealing #relationships #selfrespect #SelfImprovement

Pinenuts :

No. I've stopped. Finally learned my lesson.

mindzshift.by.adriana :

I can fully understand all this, with that when it comes to applying it, some old mechanisms are triggered “Maybe I haven’t done enough”

Antonitogirl1343 :

I ended the loop. It has been brutal but I have gone no contact and blocked him. He still gets calls though by dialing *67 but I will not answer or respond in anyway. I know the calls are not about accountability or love. It’s about him wanting me to soothe his guilt and validation.

zar10512 :

it cost me my nervous system

Dc003011 :

Nope, I don't do this anymore

datura.delirium :

When she said, “Your reaction is to chase and to pursue…” What?!?….ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!

F I M O N E :

Oof. I needed to hear this.

jilljung09 :

Right until you don’t. Until they push too far, too long.

Jovs 🐞 :

user9700817841670 :

Sister. Thank you so much. I’m was shrinking from an avoidant ex. I’m on process to heal now

monicajclay🎨🫟 :

No

Dushyanthi :

This hits so hard

Panda JF :

because there's no one else slightly engaging

FurTribeMoma :

yeah I am the problem

MARsha♏️ :

I'm in my "Let them" era. I continue to live my life and I don't look back

None :

tired of being unwanted

smilingiscontagious2009 :

This 💕💕

Neurospacey :

Learned that the hard way.

🌌 :

please know that your mindset healed a part of me deeply Suttida. Thank you!!!

Barrett :

Just had this same conversation the other day with my coach

derekaw :

What do you do when you have decided it’s a capacity issue.all of the things you

Labronski Milan :

Exhaustion In Some Cases 🔹 Given The Ego Of Some Persons🔹

Nemo 🧋 :

Someone says pull away and go silent and you're saying to put in more effort to love them... who should we believe⁉️

Ger1981 :

When they do that i let them. I am not chasing anyone anymore. That cost me my nervous system, my peace. I am a mom and i have to make sure i am happy. If they want lo leave, be at peace. Because i will ❤️just in this now and i let him. Its all fine.