Nooooo you're setting the precedent already in this relationship that he doesn't need to make an effort to
2026-08-04 21:17:55
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andreasimmonds11 :
Travel for no man.
2026-09-08 04:43:41
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Vasty🤍 :
No girl.
2026-08-04 21:24:54
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MelB1981 :
I would personally FaceTime first to see if you guys click before either of you makes the drive… but that’s just me!
2026-08-04 21:47:13
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🦋 Danielle :
What if he doesn’t show up?
2026-08-04 21:43:21
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user_xx828 :
the idea of even considering driving hours to go see a man is insane to me 💀
2026-08-05 00:06:28
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shazza19931 :
Never drive to a man, let him make the effort to come to you
2026-08-04 21:34:05
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JAILYN♡ :
girl absolutely not u dont even know this man
2026-08-04 22:17:15
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Morgan Graves :
I’m the odd one out. I like to drive to meet them , but I live in a very rural area with absolutely nothing and they usually live in a city .
2026-08-05 00:16:08
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Terra🌈🌻🍄 :
Do not lol he needs to make the effort. High standards prevent low quality experiences👏🏼
2026-08-04 21:14:04
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Hallee Renee :
My biggest pet peeve. My filter is said to 50 miles for a reason. Why are you showing me guys 200 miles away! 90% of them are from other states. None in my area.
2026-08-05 00:52:15
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Emily :
Ok I would go because it seems fair to drive halfway in my opinion
2026-08-05 05:14:41
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Carol ☘️✨☘️✨☘️ :
Meet half way….have a date….go back home. (also you didn’t say how long the drive would be) DON’T get a hotel!! If a hotel is involved do it for yourself, not to accommodate him ☺️
2026-08-05 05:39:44
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Dreya the mammy🤍 :
Nooo girl😭. Let him drive to you, as the man he needs to be putting in work to get you!! And if he doesn’t , his intentions weren’t legit!
2026-08-04 21:27:35
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nika gacha edits 💙 :
because flying cost way more than driving at this point he may not like plains and he May not be able to afford it like depending how far that could run 2 Grand
2026-08-28 17:41:18
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Fally♥️ :
As a woman in society … I am not meeting a man for the first time in an unfamiliar place and city. I do think if they live far you need to take extra time to get to know them before meeting. If he’s interested he will come to you bby
2026-08-05 12:08:38
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user777678993 :
Wait why “absolutely not” to meeting and then spending day together and then going back home? Is that not what every other date is? It’s just longer drive time. I feel like while it’s fun to get flown out you don’t know who this is .. like remember it’s a stranger. Just be safe pls
2026-08-04 21:45:12
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beyy6699 :
idk why but a man flying to me scares me
2026-08-05 16:40:00
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Sweet Baby Jayne :
Sounds like the beginning of a Dateline episode 😳
2026-08-04 21:34:49
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sima99 :
if someone isn’t willing to put in the effort for the first date, it probably means they won’t put in any effort at all
2026-08-04 21:26:22
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digitallysteph :
Please don’t!
2026-08-05 01:28:45
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Baybeeeee :
You’re making it SO easy for him, he’ll never have to make any effort! He should be coming to YOU!
2026-08-05 23:01:56
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Braaping Mama :
Oh god no! 😝
2026-08-05 01:23:40
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Megan | NJ | Mom :
No… he can come to you.
2026-08-05 02:43:24
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