@.mylifeordebt: Stop trying to save people who aren’t committed to saving themselves. You can pour your time, energy, money, patience, and love into someone who has no intention of changing. Eventually, you’ll realize you’ve become exhausted while they remain exactly the same. Growth is a choice. Healing is a choice. Accountability is a choice. You can’t make those choices for someone else. Support people who are doing the work, but don’t sacrifice your own peace trying to rescue someone who’s comfortable in their dysfunction. Sometimes the healthiest thing you can do isn’t to stay and keep fixing… it’s to walk away and protect your own future. #mylifeordebt