Very few women make this decision. Most go for the other option unfortunately
2026-08-10 21:42:37
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savanahhoney :
Cheers to women choosing themselves first!!! This story was so refreshing
2026-08-05 00:00:41
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CerealScroller :
In my opinion your “soulmate” wouldn’t ask you to do something you weren’t sure you wanted to do
2026-08-05 08:42:32
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Órlaith_peaceandlove✌️🫶 :
Not being a mother does not make you not maternal. Chosing not to have children doesn't change this either. Holding a bew born or hearing a baby cry and having all the maternal feelings are natural, but fully investing in parenting is another thing.
2026-08-04 23:46:01
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MommaPug :
I love this!! While I am luckily a one and done, my daughter, 16, doesn't want kids, I never tell her she will change her mind. I encourage her to always do what feels right for her.
2026-08-05 00:33:03
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Slapdash_suzy83 :
I was reluctant having first baby but I fell so in love and then had another. I do understand people regretting despite their love for them
2026-08-04 23:52:11
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malloryregenthal :
I always loved what Samantha on Sex In The City said to Richard and Smith. " I love you. But, I love me More."
2026-08-05 16:53:18
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agent.royale :
Wow… I just want to congratulate this lady for choosing herself. Losing the love of her life was sure heartbreaking, but it is so true to find peace when your heart and mind settle down. I PROMISE, do it for yourself 🥰💓
2026-08-05 04:00:20
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star :
more future regretful parents!!! ❤️❤️
2026-08-05 09:42:49
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xgoldstarwolfx :
A man should love you regardless if you wanted children or not
2026-08-05 16:17:25
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SofiaTheNurse :
waiting for my sterilization as im watching this haha
2026-08-05 11:23:48
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Julia :
I may be miss understanding this but it seemed op partner was not caring for her. more caring for future children from her. at 1:50ish in the vid you said he never cared for the road blocks of having tubes tied and not wanting children. that doesn't seem like someone you should be "giving" children too even if they are more mature. this is nothing against op just sounds like the partner was manipulating about kids.
I also tell people if they ask if my "perfect" partner wants kids would I have them and the answer is no. if they want kids then they are not perfect for me nor I for them
2026-08-05 02:30:21
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hansyyy :
she was only 22 when she met this soulmate? way too young to be making big life decisions. I'm glad she got away.
2026-08-06 18:26:40
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Ninalolachi :
I let go of that man who did and promised all the right things after 9 years of relationship. Cut to a few years later, he’s married with a baby, his wife stopped working to take care of the kid and they’re pretty conservative “church goers” kind of people. I feel such relief…
2026-08-05 10:57:14
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BRAXNIY :
I’m so happy he left!!
2026-08-05 13:11:30
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dy_active :
i love this ✨✨✨ as someone who chose myself
2026-08-05 07:07:40
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Jenny - Manifiesta🙌🏽 :
I couldn’t have kids, I tried, 6 fertility treatments, they didn’t work. I made peace with it. Today, I am grateful for my freedom and mental peace. I do what I want, don’t sacrifice my time nor my dreams. I live a nomad life that I never thought I could have. I thinks if we are in peace with the past, then you can live a great present
2026-08-06 16:27:50
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shiku.kimani87 :
We are so conditioned to want children as women 😭😭.
2026-08-05 19:07:50
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Marchella :
Thanks for sharing this one 💜 I needed this today.
2026-08-05 05:57:13
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Chuck Tangler :
I was a young aunt. I was obsessed with my nephews and never wanted kids of my own. I swore to my sister I loved her kids as a mother. My husband was scheduled for a vasectomy. I got pregnant between the consult and procedure. My daughter is perfect. I divorced her dad bc he was not going to be a good father. (He isn’t. I was right). He still got a vasectomy after she was born. I adore my precious daughter. She’s my world. I knew I’d never finish medical school when I got that positive result. I still mourn not finishing. I still love all 5 of my nephews the same as my daughter. My sister loves my daughter as much as her sons. I’d never tell a person they will regret it. I’d never argue they won’t experience this kind of love. My work with seniors for 20 years shows me it doesn’t guarantee anything. Love or care or anything. Follow your heart. Being a parent doesn’t affect your worth or love capacity.
2026-08-05 01:10:08
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Pilisa Nicolette Mac :
This is an incredible story. I’m so proud of her…it’s so hard to listen to your inner voice on this, especially when we live in a pronatalist culture. We are groomed from birth to not think about opting out of motherhood, that it’s a default inevitability for all women but it’s not. So proud to see women making reproductive choices that are well thought out and true to what they want.
2026-08-05 04:20:57
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Tea&Crumpets :
This is such a wonderful story. I have had zero trouble choosing no kids for me and as a single woman in her fifties I regret not a single thing. :)
2026-08-08 08:43:16
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Skincare Nerd :
What do I do with the guilt for choosing not to have children but knowing my husband would love to have them even though he supports me in my decision? 😞
2026-08-05 17:51:48
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V.B. Wonder :
Lovely brooch, Kells. 🐆
2026-08-08 02:15:20
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Juice :
Bro. Where are ppl meeting the love of their lives at??
2026-08-09 16:59:17
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