@drlauravalentina: Consent is a freely given, informed, specific, enthusiastic, mutual, ongoing, and reversible agreement to participate in sexual activity, given by a person with the capacity to choose. It must be free from force, coercion, pressure, manipulation, intimidation, or incapacitation. Consent to one act does not imply consent to another, consent in the past does not imply consent now, and consent can be withdrawn at any time. Silence, submission, or lack of resistance is not consent.
Dr. Laura Valentina
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Wednesday 05 August 2026 01:20:18 GMT
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Jess Alice Chainsaw Artist :
100% cheating is SA. it's Betrayal, Abuse, deception, manipulation. It's evil, It removes consent and causes trauma. thank you for sharing.
2026-08-05 14:07:19
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user4024342358908 :
Thank you for your post, my husband cheated on me twice, we are divorced now, and now I have RA
2026-08-12 02:10:20
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Kelsoff :
Scream this from the rooftops. It’s violating someone else’s health and safety. It’s assault.
2026-08-05 18:03:56
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guitarmanly :
All the cheaters watching this going "But but but..."
2026-08-06 15:57:58
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quit12321aed :
It’s abuse!
2026-08-05 01:46:31
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lil angel :
my coworker committed suic1de because of being cheated on QUIT PLAYING WITH PEPLES LIVES
2026-08-12 02:23:02
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Starsfire :
It should be a divorcable and sueable offense in divorce/family court!
2026-08-06 22:41:11
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Jacq :
Louder for the people in denial.
2026-08-06 02:23:20
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Lorraine Walnut 🧿 :
Agree. You consented to be in a monogamous relationship, not sleep with someone with multiple partners.
2026-08-05 17:41:57
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Jess 🌻 :
From someone who was sexually assaulted as a teen AND then cheated on 20 years later by my husband of 15 years, the betrayal was worse.
2026-08-09 02:03:35
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My_Story33 :
So when are we gonna make cheating illegal? When are we gonna start making psychological attacks illegal? When are we going to jail these people for this? When are we gonna fight for the right to jail these people? When are we gonna stop talking about it and start taking action?
2026-08-05 14:01:55
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Brad :
...trauma is an understatement...
2026-08-05 23:35:46
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•Isa• :
my psychology professor taught this idk why everyone else is so slow.
2026-08-06 14:44:49
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hshae80 :
Yes Yes Yes!!! Compromising another person's sexual health is the worst kind of betrayal. No one has the right to lie to get what they want when it can physically harm someone else's health, mentally and physically. You can't fix that.
2026-08-06 02:56:24
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Jambi :
There is also the risk of giving someone stds. It’s the worst betrayal someone can do bc it’s not just one lie. It’s multiple lies day after day that become unraveled once you find out you have been cheated on. It’s consuming. You are 100% right.
2026-08-05 14:35:21
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TheBellWoodsWitch :
As someone who was given an STI by a cheating spouse, this is a correct take.
2026-08-05 15:33:20
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LassK1965 :
Yes! I did NOT consent to needing an STI panel and HIV test because he needed “more”.
2026-08-10 11:11:02
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G James :
YES!!! Louder for the people in the back. 👏👏👏 People should be prosecuted for cheating.
2026-08-05 01:55:20
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Bridgett Bunni :
thank you for speaking on this. people act like cheating isn't a deep betrayal and they are predators if they keep it a secret. they know its wrong thats why they hide it while still hunting for new prey to cheat with.
2026-08-06 00:08:07
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C :
Betraying someone who trusts you is one of the worst things you can do to another person. It can alter who they are, how they see the world, and how they experience their life. It has been wild to the attempts to minimize or normalize cheating and betrayal over the last few years. By betraying someone’s trust you are inflicting enormous, sometimes irreparable harm. There is no reasoning or justification that ever makes that acceptable.
2026-08-05 05:55:06
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Charlie Drew :
Thank you for standing 10 toes down on this! More awareness, more accountability
2026-08-07 12:17:49
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. :
It should be a crime .. both parties involved should be charged
2026-08-06 19:02:39
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GTChris :
can we make this law?
2026-08-06 00:22:22
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Sea breeze⛴️🏝️🌍 :
100% sexual assault.
2026-08-05 12:19:06
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Girl with roses :
total abuse!! I've been in therapy for years now because of my husband (now ex).was cheating!! wish I could sue him for my medical bills and trauma!
2026-08-05 15:37:50
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