Sydney Finn
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I’m a year into a relationship with a bad texter, I’m so grateful for your content because I would have imploded this at the very beginning! He’s emotionally available, he makes plans to see me twice a week, we’ve never had a fight because we can just bring any issues to each other with a quick problem solving conversation. But he’s only gonna text me maybe once or twice a day (he works two and a half jobs) he says a lot of women have broken up with him over that
2026-08-08 16:22:18
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infoglpiwy :
This was totally me until I came across your content. I had 'high standards" which was really because I had a debilitating anxious attachment. I needed constant reassurance and communication. It's quite disgusting now that I look back..I started watching your videos & worked on fixing my cologne & it's amazing how my connection has changed or is changing..The guy that I was talking to came back around, he's always initiating and despite us having complicated schedules as single parents he makes time for me. He communicates more and it's just a great time when we get together. It's funny because sometimes he will joke with me & say wow you have feelings? & I think back with shame like I really was a solid rock 🤣🤣. This man had no idea that I liked him because I was always acting so strong. But I could totally write a book about this hahah. I also no longer rely on texting as a way to "measure" the relationship. I also forgot to mention that I stopped feeding my brain all the what ifs, he's not interested, etc because he's showing up. So thanks so much. I look forward to your videos.
2026-08-08 05:25:46
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Sw_native :
I told my friend that there is a difference with heathy boundaries in a relationship and expectations. I expect “you” to do x and y. I can expect honesty. But it often comes out as I expect honesty so therefore you do this for me. That isnt a boundary. A boundary is I am going to do to take care of myself. I expect honesty and if I sense that isn’t happening I am going to step back.
2026-08-05 12:08:01
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LBanditoAmericano :
I genuinely cannot tell you how many times I’ve been screamed at by a crying, adult woman for politely asking them not to talk to me like they’re my work supervisor
2026-08-05 10:35:45
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zigfoyer :
High standards means being disappointed all the time. If you enjoyed most everything (food, music, movies, people) imagine how easy your life would be.
2026-08-05 06:33:25
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abitterwoman :
Dear Sydney, do you have an explanation for the societal trend that so many men expect sex before they will choose to commit to a relationship? It feels like so many men expect that and it feels discouraging
2026-08-05 16:46:39
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katrina💕 :
Well my fyp surely self selected today
2026-08-05 06:03:25
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Frenchy123 :
Women are often very quick to claim that they're good communicators, yet a lot of them seem to forget that communication goes both ways and it does also require listening.
2026-08-05 19:32:32
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Audy :
You really be cooking the girls
2026-08-06 14:51:22
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helensen🍉 :
It’s classic how the people who need to hear the advice won’t, but the people who REALLY don’t need to hear that advice will take it to heart 100% and live by it
2026-08-05 08:05:17
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Penny :
You rewired my brain girrrrl , thank you
2026-08-05 08:18:41
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Kelsee Blain :
I had an issue in what seemed like every category possible. Took ALOT of work.
2026-08-06 08:52:35
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kangaroo :
yes while your content is helpful it nwill not help those who struggle to maintain thier reasonable standards those who struggle to identify bad behaviors disrespect etc. as youve said. people out of abusive relationships have been mentally gaslight so bad they cant trust thier gut or intuition its so hard. 😞
2026-08-05 10:52:23
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Sharon :
youre so intellectually comforting 💯
2026-08-05 15:30:57
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Nadiasoeker :
CLOCK IT!!! So good. People have zero tolerance to sit in uncertainty and demand a formula typical to a corporate lens. Love doesn’t work like this… other women will give you this advise and sabotage your connections
2026-08-07 14:48:48
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or often its a self reflection issue more then a communication issue i feel like. where ppl get upset dont really understand why incorrectly diagnose the problem and then communicate that they need something else then they actually do
2026-08-05 14:58:38
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A20m213 :
Girl, I wish you were therapist and live in Poland 😂 what you're saying is the only help I need. I am everything you said here and no one ever showed me this, so I couldn't help myself and change. Thank you.
2026-08-05 10:10:05
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Esco :
You are brilliant
2026-08-06 11:08:25
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Amy Elizabeth :
Truth 👏
2026-08-05 13:42:26
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🇲🇽Sherlock🏳️🌈Stoned🇵🇸 :
Ok💀
2026-08-05 21:37:52
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Oil & Ashes :
Very true
2026-08-06 23:33:35
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cut the cameras :
the answer is no 😂😂
2026-08-06 07:42:22
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Liza✨Creativity :
💯💯💯
2026-08-05 17:48:15
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irene83jay :
👌
2026-08-05 22:35:04
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