U can not force someone to be a father ...the is no formula in this and am sure no woman wants to be a single mother but life does not always work out that way.
2026-08-06 08:08:14
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Passion :
We can never win in this life. If you stay in a marriage, you might not be happy. And if you don't get married, the child will resent you😩
2026-08-06 05:44:37
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@Vhofanelwa :
I decided to buy a dog instead of having another child
2026-08-06 03:57:23
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Nice :
Who chooses to be a single mother? You can be with a man and plan to get married and stuff but still get left when you get pregnant, I get waiting till marriage but still a father can be home and still not be present for both the mother and the kids
2026-08-06 07:03:36
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Nontuthuko N-zee Sha :
Eyi, ladies just live your life your way. Whatever happens, happens!
2026-08-05 17:01:44
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Nokzozo :
As someone who grew up with a "father", my mom might as well have been a single mom. So your idea of a nuclear family isn't always healthy.
2026-08-05 10:48:43
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Ratos☕️ :
The problem starts when you think you will never be a single mom.. I watched my married mom become one when my dad died 😅.. there’s no formula in life
2026-08-06 05:47:35
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Khanyi :
This take us back to “ staying for the kids”
2026-08-06 05:00:33
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Kerina 🌺 :
Even married you can still raise a child alone . So it’s not about family structure so many kids never experience a father even with a father in the house
2026-08-06 05:34:19
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Nomvuyo :
Yekani ukusilawula, when the child asks, we will answer, as long as I afford my child
2026-08-06 02:13:17
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Bhelekazi ka Nontanda :
Kids are not pets😁😁
2026-08-05 09:01:38
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JayThibo :
As a school Safety officer, I can 100 percent tell that when we corner these kids about their anger, they cry tears because they say they miss their father.
2026-08-06 05:24:08
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💐Flowers :
Anytime I read women comments on I’ll have a kid for myself, I wonder, what about the child???
2026-08-05 09:06:26
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Hadassah :
Is a father figure even a relevant thing? How many of us grew up with fathers?
2026-08-05 18:35:15
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unathi_magaqa :
Will the father be present?, it’s not always determined that a man will decide to step up his game and be a father to his child/kids 🥲
2026-08-05 21:42:27
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Semakaleng :
a life with a father is just nonsense moms are the best.... they're love is warm
2026-08-06 06:05:56
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Wonderful Mkhutche 🇲🇼 :
Kids are not pets 👍🏿
2026-08-06 06:16:44
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🦁Kabelo_Kabasco🦁 :
I am not sure if this reflects our education system or what, but many people in the comments lack comprehension. She clearly gave context to the type of narrative or people this video is addressed. But still, you go ahead and comment that “men leave, men can switch up or change”. She is addressing a specific type of attitude in some of “independent women”. Haibo!
2026-08-06 07:41:36
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Faithy❤️❤️❤️ :
Does the child want a deadbeat?? Does a child want a father whose not consistent?? Isn't that hurting a child?? What kids want is a present patner and love, if I can provide that as a mother they will turn out fine
2026-08-06 04:56:34
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Mama & Uno🩷🩵. :
Kids are not pets🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️
2026-08-05 08:51:45
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morena :
not everyone will get a nuclear family tho💀💀💀we're starting to get unrealistic
2026-08-05 10:11:49
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user67777414381016 :
I experienced a life with a father, I wished a had a mother only
2026-08-06 05:26:59
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