Jacqui
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LouiseSanders :
This is nonsense. It can also be a trauma response. My mother was shit and I am incredibly resilient and independent becuse I had to be. Nothing to do with her caring about how I turned out. Just survival.
2026-08-05 19:43:53
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Jacqui :
A mother’s love creates independence and freedom. 💕💕💕
2026-08-05 11:46:28
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LivOC :
Carl Yung got most of his work from his wife and mistress…. So funny we quote these men that took credit for their partners work
2026-08-06 09:27:45
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Loppo :
My mum always used to say that to me 🥰.. preparing your kids for the world is a gift to them
2026-08-05 13:35:18
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rock-shore :
I hate other mothers who make their children completely dependent on them. we have to raise our children to live in this world without us or we set them up for failure
2026-08-06 00:11:37
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Hélia Alves :
A mum that does not offer any support will most definitely make her children stand alone from an early age.
2026-08-05 14:05:59
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𝓢𝓲𝓵𝓿𝓮𝓻 𝓡𝓪𝓿𝓮𝓷 :
I have made my lads independent but they know I always have their back. It’s about balance
2026-08-05 15:48:45
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Castle Bell :
Victoria Beckham look a like …
2026-08-06 10:34:20
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Katie Mavin :
I disagree with this. The greatest gift a mother can give is LOVE. A child who knows they are loved perfectly is more likely to become confident enough to be independent.
2026-08-06 10:50:25
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untraumatized :
My mother made herself unnecessary with being a covert narcissist mother
2026-08-05 17:16:52
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callyp43 :
Your role in life as a parent is to build in your children the ability to be independent. You will not always be there to rescue them.
2026-08-05 23:12:54
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Suzy Page :
Totally disagree love wins and help your children while you can ❤️
2026-08-06 08:08:26
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. :
I learnt my mother was unnecessary because she was never there when I needed her . I wouldn't call her a great mother.
2026-08-05 15:53:49
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D :
I like this alot
2026-08-05 17:39:17
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snowshopper :
and there's the mother who is never there and the child learns how to live without her but remains wounded forever
2026-08-05 16:40:35
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❌️ Bushbaby ❌️ :
So true
2026-08-05 15:17:50
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Jasmine Coral Jay - Boat Hotel :
I agree x
2026-08-05 16:02:49
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BrataNella :
Not necessarily true
2026-08-05 18:29:21
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danideyton35 :
I dont know about that. My kids are doing pretty great as young adults. My siblings and I had a mom who thought we all should deal with everything on our own, and well. We all have been going to therapy for years. Also we are permanently damaged in ways you cannot imagine. Be careful what advice you give to others.
2026-08-05 17:30:32
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Sab :
it's not to be a great mother it's to be a mother simply, it's our role. but if you can do it with a lot of love believe me it's the greatest gift , because I know some people became independant too early with a cold hearted mother and the result is not glorious.
2026-08-05 18:12:34
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The Style of Venus ❤️✨ :
Great point, nobody mentions this 🙏💓
2026-08-05 13:45:28
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Kristen Johnson :
I mean I stand alone because my mum hated me 🤣🤣
2026-08-05 23:08:35
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Anita :
and another type of mother where the child gets overlooked so they learn how to not need a mother and they learn stand alone from an early age
2026-08-05 13:55:06
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maggietaylor00 :
AH HA !! Now I know why my son doesn’t stay in touch. Cos I’ve done a brilliant job of standing on his own two feet 😳
2026-08-05 15:38:25
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jdlotm :
Both can be true 💕
2026-08-05 12:46:51
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