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TeoWaage :
Doesn’t bi people being “straight passing” rely on them suppressing their bi identity by only dating hetero?
2026-08-05 22:17:45
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Alex :
I usually feel oversexualized and chasers dehumanize us so much
2026-08-05 22:08:21
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cass :
Bisexual gets hate from both sides it sucks. I’m either not gay enough or not straight enough
2026-08-05 17:26:11
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📼Ryan/Jon/Teddy🚥 :
"Straight passing privilege" isn't privilege, sexuality being erased based on who you date is not privilege
2026-08-05 16:24:16
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Ebony!!! 🍉 :
I empathise with tje issues regarding safety, but there are privelages with liking the opposite gender (in cis relationships) because if gay marriage is banned you can still get married to the person you love, you have the option to love someone freely, hold their hand and kiss in public. Being a bi person in a opposite sex relationship regardless isn’t safe but it’s safer than being in a relationship with the same gender. That doesn’t erase your identity ofc! No matter tje relationship you are queer and valid, but if you want to think through the lense of intersectionality you have privelages gay men and lesbian women do not have, and that’s completely fine, in fact it’s good to have those privelages! and it’s okay to acknowledge that you have them. Obviously abuse and SA is wrong and i think that is abhorrent, but i think it is safer (not safe) in a general sense, but there’s nuance and anyone can be unsafe in a relationship.
2026-08-05 19:52:59
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d00bn00b :
I get so fucking pissed at this. DV and SA rates are so fucking high for bi folks. 2/3 of us experience it. Yet it’s somehow “safe”
2026-08-05 20:10:10
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Uncle Books :
I got told by a man that he’d “fix” my sexuality🫠
2026-08-05 15:38:57
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BiPaganMan :
The closet isn't a privilege!
2026-08-05 14:56:20
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who :
they're in the comments of the other video calling me and my gay relationship privileged lmaooo
2026-08-05 19:16:06
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part_time_catboy :
Every queer person can be "straight passing"- when they're single or even just leave the house alone. This argument about who has it easier or harder, when we're meant to be a collective, is so lame
2026-08-05 14:58:29
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Something Innocuous :
Erasure is not privilege, and safety that only exists through secrecy is not safe.
2026-08-05 15:56:00
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❣︎❀𝐒𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐲༒𝐃𝐨𝐤𝐣𝐚❀❣︎ :
Queer people not accepting a queer perso will always be a mystery to me
2026-08-05 15:09:38
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L.Kanoh :
Saying bisexuality is “safer” has the same font as “sexuality is choice”
2026-08-05 20:59:08
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Flex's World 🇨🇦🍁 :
I don't understand people Like Just because you "pass as straight"... doesn't make being assaulted or raped or anything okay!! I'm so sorry for the things you've gone through, and I hope you're getting along alright. Always here to listen
2026-08-05 13:52:19
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Elli :
lowk I just kind of came out, this is all fascinating to me. I'm happy to learn about all experiences
2026-08-06 01:36:13
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Meryl :
They assume because there are those of us who chose men over women we deserve the harm that comes onto us
2026-08-05 21:34:04
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theotherhappyplace :
I love you bi people of all genders. I'm bi and I stand bye y'all too, you are my siblings!
2026-08-05 23:49:04
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Alaina :
"its not safe" is not evidence of it not being safer. lets say i have rabies, kay? basicallly 100% chance im dead because we didnt catch it early. BUT. theres a surgery that can heal me but has a 99% mortality rate. that surgery is not remotely safe. but it is SAFER than letting rabies do its thing.
2026-08-05 15:57:00
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ItsAliceRoze :
I understand some of what they mean, in theory. I could theoretically choose to hide my queerness and fall in love with a man and get married and never worry about my marriage being dissolved or us being denied for adoption because of homophobia. It seems like people don’t acknowledge that I could also fall in love with a woman and have none of said privilege. Also just because you’re dating another gender doesn’t mean your relationship is straight passing.
2026-08-05 20:22:50
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Kacey :
Like yes me (bi) and my bi partner are both so privileged in our t4t gay relationship
2026-08-05 19:34:49
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utena if she were bi(gender) :
erasure is oppression too!!! it isnt any safer bc its just another form of violence that a queer person can face!!!
2026-08-05 19:31:44
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🎈ᴍᴀx ♡’ꜱ ʀᴏɴᴀʟᴅ ᴍᴄᴅᴏɴᴀʟᴅ🍟 :
I’m not even bi and I cannot stand it when people say being bisexual is easier than just being gay, even though most people (INCLUDING QUEER PEOPLE AND ALLIES) don’t even believe bisexuality is a real thing
2026-08-05 14:19:47
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june :
PLUS men aren’t suddenly all that much safer for us. if anything we’re more at risk to experience IPV because our dating pool is more broad.
2026-08-05 15:41:50
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Lucy :
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’m in full support of you as a pan trans girl
2026-08-05 19:42:37
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deliawithit :
some people seem to think you can’t be gnc or visibly queer if you’re bi? like baby i could be holding hands with a bf and people would see us and think why is that butch lesbian with a man. i’m still visibly queer all the time
2026-08-05 16:54:08
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