Cheree :
The narcassist was needed for the souls evolution. The empath grows and evolves through pain enough for the ego to crack and reveal the truth , the pattern . once the empath finally sees the pattern they either become empowered and use discernment, learn boundaries for the first time and heal their abandonment wound or they stay in that dynamic and continue to self abandon while people pleasing. The empath was playing out different personers the wounded healer, the mother complex , ect
The empath then attracts an avoident to play out the same dynamic and to ensure further healing. the psychy is orchastrating this. The empath stays again until they see the pattern playing out and they choose themselves. An empath was an exstream giver with no boundaries but also learnt to give to survive , played a role in a toxic family dynamic. Became super sensitive because had to survive an unpredictable environment.
I know this because my life has been this and I am now an empath with boundaries, limits and use my gift to help others in my work not with everyone who needed an emotional sponge.
An empath didnt get the love, security safety a child needs so they spend their childhood bending, accommodating, seeking approval, love, attention outside of themselves subconsciously. When you embrace the pain inflicted by the narcassist and avoident healing takes place , this happens through the psychy you then for the first time feel whole, the need to seek stops you feel whole
2026-08-06 03:48:59