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☆ :
Assumptions are usually CONFESSIONS
2026-08-07 15:52:51
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notmussss__ :
My friendship breakups made me realize how much people loved what I did for them than love me as a person
2026-08-21 10:29:18
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<3 :
and sometimes it’s just them projecting their own way of thinking onto you
2026-08-06 15:15:14
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Kyo :
I was perceived very badly and I explained myself too much and apologized too much but in the end nothing changed. I realized she always had a bad perception about me so if I’m very bad why you still wanna be friends then ? I gave so much benefits of doubts cause I knew genuinely she wasn’t a bad person but vice versa things seems different
2026-08-06 07:58:00
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hehehe1111111111111 :
Same. Gave her the benefit of the doubt so many times. The only time I called out a behavior - she gave me a whole lecture and I just don’t understand how a friend of 12 years can misunderstand my personality after 12 years? That was it for me. It was done.
2026-08-05 21:24:05
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Katy :
someone struggling isnt an exxuse to be rude to and put down
2026-08-06 07:49:29
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communist.daughter100 :
i have a feeling the friendships end mostly when one or two just stop liking each other. if you still like someone, you will forgive and adjust to them. but if there is no warmth or interest left, it’s done
2026-08-05 23:26:13
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Muthoni :
You realize they hated you all along. Brutal experience
2026-08-21 09:40:33
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☆ Michaela ☆ :
I realized my best friend of 12 years did not know me at all when we had a falling-out and she started to describe my character and make assumptions. The way she described me, she must have hated me all that time. According to her, I was an awful, dramatic, and draining person to be around. She told me my personality was lying and deceiving and that I was weird, crazy, not normal, and that she had to put up with me all those years and defend my problematic behavior in front of others. Meanwhile, I was her unpaid therapist for all those years, available 24/7. I used to help her with everything I could, go see her, and try to cheer her up. I got whiplash from that fight since I only told her I got sas when she told me I was ”ick”, weird and crazy.. 😬
2026-08-06 07:52:37
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Monmon :
Sometimes people just stop liking you. It’s really sad but I’d much rather know
2026-08-06 17:47:25
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celery :
Biggest one i’ve learned is that I don’t need to argue with someone committed to misunderstanding me
2026-08-08 16:57:14
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user not found :
It was really the way how I was perceived that broke my heart.
2026-08-21 10:12:01
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Timmy :
yh once you go after my character it's wrapped.
2026-08-22 01:26:45
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Newbie Seattleite💕 :
Yes, that’s also the curse of the empath. You always try to look for why the behavior was so you excuse a lot
2026-08-05 17:21:03
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gis :
Yes! I had a similar falling out and I was so surprised at the lack of grace /benefit of the doubt given to me (even though I’ve given for considerably far worse situations), and even after trying to apologise, I realised it wasn’t worth resolving
2026-08-21 23:49:52
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L. :
Her assumptions about me were so confusing because it was something I’d never do and after the friendship break up, I realized these assumptions were actually things she did It was her insecurities that she was projecting on me.
2026-08-23 19:59:05
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Luckystar :
silent treatment is the worst
2026-09-22 12:57:09
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kgomotso___ :
heavy on I’d never think or believe that about you.
2026-08-21 10:18:30
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bonolo_bt :
Girl, same… literally went through the EXACT same thing. So trippy.
2026-08-21 17:33:07
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Sonny :
When they start building assumptions without sitting you down to ask questions they never cared about you
2026-08-06 21:19:54
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Pride :
What I learned is if a friend doesn’t respond to me for weeks or months at a time while being active on social media then we r nawt close. “Low” maintenance can only go so low, then ur just acquaintances and will be treated as such
2026-08-21 11:33:48
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𝐝𝐞𝐥𝐢🪽 :
this has been oddly specific, wow.
2026-08-22 13:18:46
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Mani :
She twisted so much of my text messages between us. I was over explaining everything. Turns out I was undiagnosed with ADHD…
2026-08-06 12:54:44
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KEEKS :
I just broke up w a bff of 7+ years. When I opened up to her about how I felt she was treating me, she randomly started to spill all these accusations of my character out to me like word vomit. I did not identify with that perception of me in her stories. That wasn’t me at all. I realized she actually hated me.
2026-08-25 18:47:56
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