@favorwanjirumbuthia1: To everyone judging how I comfort my son. My job isn't to make my parenting look acceptable to strangers. My job is to make my child feel safe. My 4-year-old is autistic. He seeks deep pressure and physical closeness because that's how his body regulates when the world feels overwhelming. When I carry him on my back, I'm not creating dependence. I'm providing regulation, safety, and connection. One day he'll outgrow this season. Until then, I'll keep being his safe place without apology.

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nadwilliams42
nad Willi :
I have a child, who is also on the spectrum. ppl will always talk.
2026-08-09 21:42:22
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vhee_vhee2
Vhee_vhee❤️ :
Let everyone mind their business bcz people do certain things bcz of a reason…….i didn’t grow up with a present mother so I be over pampering my daughter too much bcz it feels like am finally experiencing the motherly love i was never given
2026-08-08 18:04:21
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sheebaharinda
sheebaharinda :
You're very right darling 😘 infact motherhood should be proud of your intellect 👌 ❤️💙
2026-08-09 05:47:11
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jmbabyshop3
jmbabyshop3 :
my girl is 4 now. we have no explanations for anything we do. we do what makes us comfortable
2026-08-08 05:02:44
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pleasured.by.blac
Pleasured by BlackDimond :
mine is 8, she's not autistic but I carry her on my back when she asks me to. Don't let society dictate what you should do with your child mommy 🥰
2026-08-06 04:28:30
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jaycourt7235
oyekanmijohnson :
Maybe more campaigns about autism would help the society remove this stigma . See, you're not an unfortunate person, you're good and the baby is fine.
2026-08-08 08:31:05
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nangonzi.stellah
Nangonzi Stellah :
Thank you for taking care of him 🙏
2026-08-08 21:06:08
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shee3130
tr.shee💖 :
4yrs ata ni mdogo my girl is 6yrs not special child in any way but bora niko in public places nambeba kwa mgongo tena na leso
2026-08-05 20:39:42
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ngooforwundanyi
Raymond Ngoo :
Autism has not been well understood in many cultures, often resulting in misconceptions and stigma. It’s time to replace fear with knowledge, judgment with empathy, and exclusion with inclusion. Every autistic person deserves acceptance, respect, and the chance to reach their full potential.💕💕💕💕
2026-08-06 10:33:15
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promiseniwasiimir
Peaciful creature :
why is it more in boys than girls?
2026-08-05 14:52:13
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girl_amerucan
Miss_Mbogori :
Aww this tall at 4! he’s going to grow into such a tall handsome gentleman
2026-08-05 21:05:22
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vanelissa.advocacy
Vanelissa Advocacy :
We can do everything for our kids to be comfortable and feel safe. ignore people who don't know much about spectrum. Very best wishes ❤️❤️❤️.
2026-08-05 16:46:50
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mamrahuma1
rahuma always :
but this woman is extremely beautiful
2026-08-06 16:58:40
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shaynia67
shaynia :
but autistic or not a 4yr old is still a baby,you can put them on the back.mine is 6 but I put her on my back
2026-08-06 09:42:16
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zoe27900
Zoe :
oh,and he's sooooo cute !!
2026-08-05 19:24:11
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suzanapolot
Mama Kai :
Autism is rarely understood by many. I also get frustrated whenever they blame me for bad parenting by autistic son, others will never understand ur struggles no matter how hard to try to explain. Just ignore and do 's best for your child.
2026-08-06 06:26:42
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noriinekyre
kyre :
Let them carry theirs too. A child is such a precious gift 😊
2026-08-07 03:04:27
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naomimburu1
Naomie :
Take the good and leave the negative I made a comment on that video amd you received emmense love♥️♥️♥️
2026-08-06 03:25:51
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user1804220466694
🇺🇬✌️ :
Even if he turns 50 carry him if you can, it's the most precious gift God ever gave you and your pride
2026-08-06 17:34:34
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user9815573618114
kipkirui :
may God give you strength. forgive them they don't understand
2026-08-05 14:22:18
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faithpius255
Gods child :
Worry less mama...do you...he is your child...he only got one childhood...make it count
2026-08-06 00:25:14
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tivahthefirst
🦋Tivah🦋🥳 :
autistic or not a mother should sometimes carry their child .I mean if a child needs extra love even 14or 18 or 22 I would carry my child that's your baby mama . and the fact that he is autistic he needs the extra love ..and he is four years old for God's sake who doesn't carry a 4year old .who hurt pipo. y are pipo sad .pipo dint receive enough love growing up .every one seems wiser in another person's situation. .you are doing amazing mama .lots of love .love your baby .spoil your baby mama .
2026-08-06 03:34:59
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fromashestograce_martha
Rich Kiddies Ventures :
I hope they go back and delete those comments because. And actually apologize.
2026-08-05 16:46:34
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keziah916
Ndumba 💙 :
A mother’s love 💙
2026-08-06 17:43:32
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user3850466873375
Zziwa sandra :
autistic or not you're a mother showing love to your baby 🥰no one should attack you
2026-08-06 07:30:05
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