@lowpeters_: It was about consistency between what I said I valued and how I behaved to showcase it.. #time #value #relationshiptips #respect #datinglife
If there’s anything I’ve learnt in my 30 years of living is that men will always put themselves first
2026-08-05 17:01:04
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I told someone to stop calling me babe he laughed it off. So anytime he texted me and added babe I would view the message and leave it on read after some time he got the message and stopped it.
2026-08-05 17:21:03
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Real Life Jones :
I started doing this recently. I had ppl pick the time for us to do something and they don’t keep with the time or reach out in advance. I started canceling because I kept showing up for people that was too comfortable that I was accessible. It’s not even me being upset just I’m not doing it anymore and they show me who they are, either they will adjust or they will get more upset that you are choosing to set clear boundaries.
2026-08-05 17:47:29
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Nutritionist.kiks :
Thank you cause I grow cold and distant if you don’t respect my boundaries
2026-08-05 16:00:06
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wendy :
Well said! Separate question: how do you deal with people who constantly get distracted or talk to others while on the phone with you?
2026-08-05 17:08:59
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I am love :
I ended a friendship over this kind of nonsense. Girl was always late 💀
2026-08-05 17:41:59
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Lerakes :
Yep. This applies to ALL relationships
2026-08-05 16:59:08
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Baby_riri♥️♥️ :
same goes to making plans and no communication on where, how and what time we will meet. you have to give me communication at least 24hrs prior
2026-08-05 15:51:11
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Documenting my life 🌸 :
Yeahh…I needed this fyp my boundaries, standards and principles dropped
2026-08-05 16:39:09
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daniellleeee :
I needed to hear this OMG, back to the drawing board 😭🤣
2026-08-05 17:14:12
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Obakeng Molokwane :
Used to do this to my ex. I think I love this one too much
2026-08-05 16:49:36
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Ashionyenedue :
my problem is that I will explain
you apologize you do it again I vut u off 😂
I learned a good one today 😀
2026-08-05 17:15:21
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here.in.pair :
Thank you Sissyyy
2026-08-05 16:25:06
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Panashe Mahlokozera :
I love the language you used when setting the boundary
2026-08-05 15:47:52
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quinn :
This would work well with a person who is mentally mature... otherwise the approach could be excruciatingly exhausting
2026-08-05 17:06:51
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Adegboyega Dorcas Anuoluwa :
I see what you meannnn!!
I don't need to be difficult for my boundaries to be respected 🤍
2026-08-05 16:58:34
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Hey, It’s Sammie🇺🇸|🇿🇦|🇬🇧 :
You set the standard!
2026-08-05 15:50:09
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𝓖𝓵𝓸𝓡𝓲 🪄 :
And that’s why you need to be busy cause if you’re not you’ll still be sitting there waiting on the call and you might even end up calling them just because you’re idea and bored
2026-08-05 17:22:04
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Diana_Ambassador :
I have been doing this and people get shocked ....like what's there to get shocked about
2026-08-05 16:35:03
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JollofCulture :
Did she say her husband or business associate? Cos I’m confused.
2026-08-05 16:36:35
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Sophie :
as it should be
2026-08-05 16:39:59
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adun_ad0 :
This is profound. I do have a question though. You said that if you both agree on a time to talk and he misses it without communicating, then when he eventually reaches out, you shouldn’t drop everything you’re doing just to accommodate him. I completely understand that. My question is, what if he finally calls later and you genuinely aren’t doing anything at that moment? How would you handle that situation? Would you still answer or would you let him wait because he didn’t respect the original plan?
2026-08-05 17:26:48
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