@wanderlusqt:

Memo :

Hey question so my avoidant said she wasn’t ready for us (dating). We had a great time together and a lot of things came up and she got overwhelmed I understood what was happening. I was a previous anxious attachment now I’m way secured with myself now, but I still want to be with her but idk if she said what she said cause she truly wasn’t ready or just didn’t want to be with me. She was always up front but I still want to try if that makes sense