Absolutely true , I woke up one day & realised that a few freinds had premium access to me while I was taking less than a bare minimum. I started living a peaceful life the day I realised that it was me who needed to change all along.
2026-08-05 15:55:27
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Lolli :
l Call those : "Users" they USE you for your Time, Energy, Fund$, Food, Support, Idea's, but can't give Back. they just Take. Take. Take
2026-08-07 00:43:28
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Imjustlit🔥 :
Blocked everyone problem solved for me
2026-08-06 17:19:39
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🦇 "BeetleDween " 🦇 :
even when they check up on you and listen to you, it could just be them being strategic and making and investment with your life for a payoff later.
imo it all comes down to where we're headed. if it aint in the same direction, then I know itll end. my direction is towards Christ, if they aint walking that way with me then that's on them. im never gonna stop walking that way.
2026-08-06 15:26:03
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KAPENONU :
thank you that sucks. I really keep my circle. So small mostly talk to my wall my dogs much love.
2026-08-06 05:31:13
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🌺Her Mrs🌺 :
I’m sorry you went through that friend. Remember I love you!
2026-08-05 15:48:07
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thee_boy_mom :
Reflecting has taught me that it's actually not the other person's fault, I had to heal my childhood traumas. We tend to pour into people, until we are depleted because of abandonment & rejection. I stopped reaching out & there was silence, I block anything or anyone that drains my peace. God also sees people's hearts, His rejection is a way of redirecting you. 💕
2026-08-05 16:14:16
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Siphokazi Gazi :
Good word sir, very true.
2026-08-05 18:59:47
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Elledoesdallas :
Ugh, I cant believe how long i ignored it.
2026-08-07 00:32:28
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KC✨️🤫✨️ :
I stopped venting to ppl when I noticed that 9 times out of 10, they would IMMEDIATELY turn the conversation back to them and I would end up being the shoulder to lean on/giving the words of encouragement to them, as usual.
2026-08-07 15:16:33
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bobbyjohnson0898 :
I felt this deeply..been through this many times
2026-08-06 07:13:18
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Slim Bella :
Individuals will do that if we allow. I stopped allowing them over 2-3 years ago. I have peace! 😉 I am finally pouring into me and it’s wonderful. 👏🏽 Should have done this years ago.
2026-08-06 00:54:06
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Daily Boost :
[Sticker] agreed
2026-08-05 19:57:44
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Mademoiselle Sparrow :
I agree!
2026-08-05 19:56:00
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shurrandah :
Lopsided friendships…
2026-08-06 16:35:22
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Myshay :
This has happened to me so many times 🥺 I had to cut them off
2026-08-06 13:18:45
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NOTAQUITTER STANDING :
Definitely understand this 🙏❤️
2026-08-05 17:07:37
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cindy.lou.cali 🇺🇲 💙 :
Yep, stopped putting energy into people who don't put energy into me. And interestingly the "hole" left in my life from their absence wasn't filled with loneliness, it was filled with peace.
2026-08-06 19:15:54
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Patricia :
I know….they weren’t who I thought they were 🦋
2026-08-06 22:57:19
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She^Divine’ :
Thank you!
2026-08-06 00:39:50
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Pleasant Inspired Apparel :
Real talk and so true
2026-08-05 23:27:41
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unbothered_nini :
They reach out only when they need something so a lot of "No" to distribute
2026-08-07 12:07:52
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Touching Grass isn't Enough :
My contact list decreased by half when I stopped reaching out to them first
2026-08-07 08:17:36
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Jewel Gonzalez :
YOU ARE CORRECT…✨🥹✨
2026-08-05 22:22:24
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