@madeline_pendleton:

kit🔻 :

“That was fun. Next time we hang out can I crawl in your skin with you? 🐩” — Madeline Pendleton

🪩🍒 ☭ stephanie ☭ 🍒🪩 :

People are still waiting to text?? Is this 1997????

TechWitchTitan🏳️‍🌈👽🛠🖖🏖⛈️ :

I am dating, however, its carbon.

sof :

i used ur idea of pointing at someone at the bar and then telling them to come to me and it worked lmao 😭😭

Nightmare :

Modern dating games are so exhausting. Just be genuine for once.

val :

queer/ “alt” ppl vs cishet relationships lol

Dre :

Same. I saw a post that was like “if you ever want someone to leave you alone at a bar just don’t stop talking, word vomit, trauma dump…” and I was like dude that’s how I’ve pulled all 3 of my ex partners idk how that works for you lmao

⛓️𝖑𝖎𝖓𝖉𝖘⛓️ :

my neurodivergent mind makes it so i do not understand these arbitrary rules about dating. thank the universe i ended up marrying my best friend lol didn’t have to deal w any of that

RiverxKing :

From the cis male perspective: if a guy likes you or fucks with you, he’ll love it you’re forward and weird(whimsical) with him. I think because the patriarchal standard of the man being in pursuit, it’s refreshing when it’s the other way around.

thumbsucker :

i’m too neurodivergent to play all those games

Cara :

As a straight woman, I HATE the “rules” of dating and how people go about it

Alex :

Dreww🍉 :

my husband and I have talked every single day all day since 2009 when we met. 😂 we literally used to fall asleep on the phone together as teenagers.

Karlee’s Jungle :

Yeah a lot of people don’t like how I will text right away. Why would I play some weird game with you ???

b.bunnie32 :

I was personally way too honest and just very autistic and now I have a wife so🤷🏽‍♀️😭😂

digital.nimbus :

I'm not in the dating scene anymore but if someone waited a week to get back to me after a date, I'd assume that they just didn't like me that much.

clamcake513 :

Added for whimsy, obviously.

Brad Scabbed :

The fried shrimp emoji adds mystery

PrincessBabyAngelFace :

Nuerotypical dating rules are wild

Matt Lohuis :

Natural enthusiasm instead of overthinking shit goes a long way. Nothing feels better than someone you enjoyed spending time with genuinely wanting to spend more time with you.

Lily :

"What if they think you're weird!?" I am weird! So I better show them my weird right away because that's what they'll be getting 🤷 I do this with potential friends (since I'm aroace and don't want to be not single) and it has worked wonders. Being honest and open got me the best freaking friends in the world that match my weird and we're all so happy together!!

Spectre of Communism :

Lol, the problem is that when I do say things like that the other people says that I am too intense and are moving too fast. Then proceed to block me.

strocode :

26 years since swingers and we have not moved forward as a society…

Promethian :

Honestly you’re so right about being weirder

Siri 🦎 :

my dating philosophy became, be myself and don't overthink it. at a certain point into being wirh someone, you'll have to be your genuine self completely and openly anyway. might as well find out if they like you or not early on, instead of wasting time