@dolloftheday: Tr@nz dating and disclosure is such an arduous anxiety inducing process chileeee 🙄 #fyp

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richiecum
richiecum :
we never hear these conversations about trans men tho people truly just hate women
2026-08-05 22:25:27
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ray.la.fey
Ray :
Here’s an easy way to fix this: if you are transphobic, you should let a person know that on or before the first date. I promise, trans people will avoid you!
2026-08-06 10:08:08
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waluigismokesdoinks
Waluigismokesdoinks :
Why should she risk her life by disclosing if she’s not even sure she wants to see them again
2026-08-05 22:07:59
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kathleenaxtell
dumptrucktrauma :
they are literally called private parts 😳 first date my privates arent anyone's business
2026-08-05 19:37:15
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fixed.broken
/Users/Grant :
My opinion is a trans person does not owe you anything. It's their life and their story, and unless there is an intention for sex it is none of your business.
2026-08-05 19:38:50
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treu.brown
Treu Bliss Brown :
they should tell them bc, they are on a date, and the other person should be able to decide like oh idk if I can do this etc. kinda like knowing someone's age group
2026-08-06 02:43:42
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rip.1.y.2
rip 1 y 2 :
It's lose lose situation, either we disclose and we get weirdos or we don't and we potentially get abused/killed. AND even if we do disclose, sometimes our end fate is to die to these WEIRDOS.
2026-08-05 18:15:45
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headoflocs
headoflocs :
Not predatory but a 1st date with a straight man that isn’t interested in that is a waste of time for both people, right?
2026-08-07 13:10:25
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splic3d
Sirin ☾ • Nnoitras #1 Fan :
yeah. an innocent first date requires no disclosure...like it's literally just testing the waters for BOTH parties.
2026-08-05 21:30:42
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hxnnibxi2.0
🌟 :
telling a first date youre trans is also incredibly dangerous bc they could easily kill you i thought that was common sense 😭
2026-08-07 02:53:58
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spuddleagereartist
HotGirlWalkSpuddle🇵🇸🇨🇩🇸🇩 :
And its the way people go "And thats why yall get killed" is so fucking insane cause yall NEVER go "why was your reaction to being startled MURDER instead of just having them go home and block them"
2026-08-05 20:39:09
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vicksoriiaa
lex :
Then youre wasting that persons time
2026-08-09 18:02:26
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mckay597
00-w :
im confused isn't this something good about yourself why wouldn't you proudly say this important thing about yourself especially if your asking to be accepted by the other person for all of who you are. shouldn't disclosing this info weed out the people who wouldn't accept you? stopping you from wasting your time and the other person?
2026-08-07 14:42:00
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keestec
KeesTec :
Going on a date to get a free meal is predatory
2026-08-07 14:44:40
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leonte__94
DeArrius Price :
If you’re trans and you know the person you’re talking to doesn’t know you should tell them before you even make it to the first date that solves all the issues. You’re still safe from harm and you’re not wasting your time
2026-08-06 09:04:53
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wheatisme
wheat :
No, because the fact that trans women are seen as predators for not disclosing they are trans. Just shows how badly the other party wants to have sex RIGHT AWAY?? can we truly not just go to a coffee shop?
2026-08-08 04:04:13
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percupi0
percupi0 :
"you should disclose before even meeting up!" 1) disclosing can get you K;LLED. *K;LLED*. 2) unless you sleep with people on the first date, what's going on in someone's trousers isn't relevant at all.
2026-08-08 08:33:21
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n0ah.sxh
noah :
why dont cis people with a preference just tell everyone their preference instead of expecting trans people to out themselves? if its so important to you ask lmao
2026-08-06 14:30:20
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ohhmissfortune
🦇♱‘𝕸𝖎𝖑𝖑𝖊 ♱🦇 :
Literally! Like if we’re just having coffee, why do you need to know about my genitals?
2026-08-06 03:12:51
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potatoblender_
⃝꙰⃝꙰⃝꙰⃝꙰⃝꙰⃝꙰⃝꙰⃝꙰⃝꙰⃝ :
It’s literally for their own safety tf
2026-08-06 00:17:40
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myfanonlypage
myfanonlypage :
So I don’t get the choice ! I have to just be okay with your choice .
2026-08-07 17:59:30
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ori._.iro
ori._.iro :
If you have a dealbreaker it is YOUR responsibility to disclose that to your potential partners. It isn’t their responsibility to read your fucking mind
2026-08-06 16:17:27
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drixypixy
Drixy :
If there’s no intention of sex it’s fine but if that’s the sole reason yall meeting up it should be said.
2026-08-06 14:33:13
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