I needed this video and these comments to remind me not to chase that man yet again. He seems to get a kick out of it I noticed. It's hard because I need to learn self love, but I needed this.
2026-08-07 08:19:59
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tapp :
They just want you to chase them to feed their ego.
2026-08-06 10:32:55
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jade_ 902022 :
they get a kick out of it...
2026-08-05 19:58:57
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Ci Ci :
Silence is torture to a man who is insecure. Weaponize it. You can’t shake a tree with grounded roots.
2026-08-06 11:26:52
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Tri Prints :
Step one. Emotionally regulate. step two: get rid of that person and anyone associated with them. If you can’t get rid of them right away, start adding distance. Take longer to text back, make conversation shorter/dry, be boring/dull . Do it until you can safely get away sometimes it could take weeks/months or years. But as long as you’re getting away from them.
2026-08-06 04:41:45
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🦩Flamingo 🦩 :
Plus right now they are desperate while at it... stay non challant.
They👏are 👏doin👏 it👏 on 👏purpose👏!!!!! to rile you up. if you must , stay away from men. DIVINE FEMININE needs emotional regulation. stay calm and unbothered!
2026-08-07 08:53:48
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koketso.chali :
I’ve learnt to be mean as well. Men love mean women and I wonder why🤣🤣🤣
2026-08-06 21:24:48
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。* ✧ ₒ ु ta’s locs ू ₒ ✧ *。 :
Energy vampires! It’s almost like they need your energy to survive!
2026-08-05 18:22:35
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Lexiii>> :
stop scrolling for a second and look up Reality U Never Chose by Lyra trust me
2026-08-06 23:25:32
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DearOnyinye :
I no longer even have emotion to regulate😂😂😂
2026-08-06 11:42:37
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mimi :
Got it. Thank you
2026-08-07 03:03:49
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🌹💋 :
I’m 24 and honestly, Everything she said is on point!! Listen to her.
2026-08-06 17:46:31
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TIMELESS TRENDS TZ :
When you said atleast I can make Erica sad😅 I gasped my name is Erica😂
2026-08-06 17:21:54
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shellegain :
my husband stopped doing this because every time he would act a fool. I would just pack my bags and leave. Each time he did this. I would purposely stay away longer. The first time its a week. The second time, 2 weeks. 3rd time three weeks. The longest was maybe 4 months. and each time that i left. i blocked him everywhere and even when he called with other numbers. I would not pick up the phone. That man went crazy. Started looking like a junky. He cried his eyes out, could not sleep, nor could he eat. Other people started calling me, I still did not pick up the phone. After that he stopped acting like a fool. If he even suspects that I will pack a bag to leave him. He starts cleaning, cooking, and buying things that he knows that I like. and this was years ago that he stopped acting like a fool. Now i have women telling me and asking me where I have found such a loving and gentle husband. Girl!!!! Even my own mother told me that I am so lucky to have such a caring husband. I told her, the only reason he acts like this is because he knows that I'm not afraid to leave! If a man has the opportunity to pee and sh*t on a woman's head. Trust me, he'll do it!!!
2026-08-07 02:38:45
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Nikki Tontelle :
I crash out in private and come back solid 😂😂
2026-08-06 11:21:52
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Tae | London Esthetician💛 :
Best thing I’ve learnt
2026-08-05 18:10:09
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sheyy_iam :
She’s so correct!..Empty men need your reactions, it’s how they measure their level of importance! Energy & ego farming. They know exactly what they’re doing!
2026-08-06 10:54:04
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Ebony Blaze 🔥🐦🔥 :
If I would’ve learned this at 29 I wouldn’t be battling divorce at 39…….
2026-08-06 12:18:33
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gracethee_gemini :
They’re warlocks!!!! They will literally feed off your energy yoh!!!!!💀💀
2026-08-06 10:40:58
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