Brittany | Women’s Self Trust
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Wednesday 05 August 2026 17:37:31 GMT
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seeking____eden :
My therapist said it’s because we eventually view them as another child and we don’t abandon children.
2026-08-08 15:44:44
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jengood008 :
Oh boy, this is really for me. I did this a few weeks ago and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever done.
2026-08-06 16:42:07
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ashlee :
What is so hard is they guilt you so much when you want to leave! They don’t see that we want more for them and they will recover and hope they find someone new that is better suited for them. It kills me to see him in so much pain🥺🥺🥺
2026-08-06 02:46:54
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hannahlr77 :
It's hard because I've been their person for so long, but they stopped being mine. It became entirely about them, and she kept making these awful decisions that everyone warned her about, but she'd act like a victim. Everyone else has left her, it's just me now.
2026-08-07 15:42:25
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G :
I’m trying to breakup with a dismissive avoidant. But she relies on me for everything and guilts me into staying every time but still doesn’t change
2026-08-07 20:24:36
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jennyleesawyer :
omg i needed to hear this x
2026-08-24 19:39:24
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elliot!!!!!! ⚭ :
can i send this to myself 3 years ago
2026-08-09 12:30:13
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Léa :
Rule number 1 : never become someone’s ONLY support system. If someone is leaning on you too much, distance yourself before you end up supporting their own weigh
2026-08-10 08:29:04
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bjbrackin :
It helped after I realized the reason they didnt have a support system is mainly because he pushed them away by being destructive.
2026-08-07 20:56:10
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Dean Fuller :
Can this apply to men as well? We are moving to separate apartments and are taking a break but I know in my heart that I’m done
2026-08-06 01:46:00
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♡ :
this was me in my recent relationship and it hurt so so much. i felt absolutely horrible, because i felt my leaving would ruin their life. it's still been hard to move past because the guilt constantly eats me alive
2026-08-07 22:55:01
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mam1923 :
I’m in this boat right now, but I’ve come to realize that he’s a 40 year old man and his inability to maintain his male friendships long term isn’t my problem but ending it is so much easier said than done
2026-08-07 14:57:55
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ashley the mystic :
my ex partner didn't have any real friends, and that was part of the reason we grew apart.
2026-08-07 04:05:49
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Tony :
I can’t just be your only friend.
2026-08-07 14:52:12
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Stephanie Kroll :
Hi it’s me. I will be doing this in 2 weeks and I have paid for everything for 5 years. He needs to figure his life out.
2026-08-08 21:46:55
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𝕮𝖍𝖊𝖘†𝖓𝖊𝔜 𝕮𝖍𝖎𝖑𝖑𝖊𝖗 :
My main advice on this is don’t allow yourself to become someone’s only support system. Distance distance distance! The minute you notice someone being clingy is the time to cut the cord asap
2026-08-08 18:17:00
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B :
I was with for someone for eight years because of this. The last two years were hell on earth
2026-08-09 04:00:47
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cc7me :
And then they bring out the manipulation and weaponization of trauma.. we’re having a great time over here
2026-08-08 18:31:19
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Lindsey Perry ✨ :
I was his main comfort person but he also treated me worse than anyone. I specifically told him I couldn’t be his support system AND his (emotional) punching bag.
2026-08-07 18:05:24
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cc :
Just remember all the times they told you “ i never asked you for that” or “i don’t need you”
2026-08-08 01:59:11
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tone453toomh :
i giving support while she was drowning me
2026-08-08 18:14:02
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rozyy :
woman i love you
2026-08-05 17:41:53
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TheRealVR6Lori :
S/o to TikTok for listening to my conversations
2026-08-08 00:54:04
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Starkie Stark :
im here. my "bf" is 40. has no other support system but me...i love him but hes been very open we will never be more than this.never live together. no ring. I cant give him kids. and he hates cats:/ struggling
2026-08-08 14:15:31
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Kelly :
I literally was in this friendship last year. her parents are abusive, the men she dates are horrible, her other friends aren't great people. I was the only one who tried to help her but it got so draining and useless
2026-08-08 16:16:48
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