Grow with Kaela
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Josie Juarez :
Yeah my therapist said this to me recently. “If he can’t handle his own emotions, he won’t be able to show up for yours. His silence is the answer. He has shown you all he can offer. The emotional disconnect will hurt you so much waiting for him to show you for you the way you do for him. So he runs and ghosts because he doesn’t know how to handle it. He feels like this is all I can give her, why can’t she understand it” so I stopped taking it personal. His capacity level was reached. It’s painful to go through but I’m realizing I’m enough. I’m not hard to love. I was just asking someone that isn’t capable of loving himself so he gave me all he could offer.
2026-08-05 20:10:13
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The Missy👑 :
My man always says “how did I get so lucky” then I began to research his attachment style and realized what was going on 😣😣😖😖😕😕
2026-08-30 08:51:31
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AprilDiswhattheycallme🥰 :
Chile, my avoidant just told me yesterday he's nothing special....i told him don't you ever say that again!!! he's special to me🥰
2026-08-28 21:09:27
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Evolving Abroad :
he literally told me I helped him more than anyone in his life. And then he fled the country
2026-08-05 20:44:52
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Bridget :
Thank you for this reminder and I like your Rosie the riveter shirt!
2026-08-08 14:14:09
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Duganfry3 :
Next to betrayal, a dismissive avoidant discard is the cruelest thing you can go through for a loyal empath.
2026-08-06 15:30:39
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Meg 🪴 :
“Some people would rather burn the connection than admit they need to grow. That’s not your loss, that’s their ceiling.” 💔 we learn the hard way, then we FINALLY decide to walk away.
2026-08-06 16:33:22
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elishadavila :
That’s a narcissist lol. Let’s stop being polite and calling them avoidants 😂
2026-08-07 03:47:43
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hedidntevenlikeme :
Hmmm. People need to understand this: Avoidant discard doesn’t just end a relationship ... it can nearly end a person.
2026-08-06 09:48:09
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Blue Eyed Okie :
Thank you. ❤️
2026-08-28 20:56:54
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MiSHA :
Get the ick from this treatment ladies
2026-08-05 20:16:53
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River :
Then why do they get married and have kids weeks after you?
2026-08-06 04:10:56
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Proff🇬🇭 :
What makes me boil was they were the one that initiated the connection!!!
2026-08-09 13:41:34
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📕 Poetic _ justice ⚖️ :
the most painful part about dating a dismissive avoidant is that they know they feel this way and are afraid of love but still pursue it. The most painful part was watching them do erasure and avoid because you love them flaws and all. Dating a dismissive avoidant is aweful they make you feel punished for loving them . 😔😔
2026-08-07 23:09:47
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Vanexa :
He wasn't worthy of me at all. He wasn't enough for me.
2026-08-05 18:10:32
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Tat2nursekim :
I can confirm, he fumbled the BEST thing he could have EVER had.
2026-08-06 03:58:56
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kinicka1155 :
they are very individualistic in a relationship
2026-08-06 00:06:25
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Karen Rose :
Being a DA is a f’ked up existence
2026-08-05 19:56:50
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victoriachiaa :
He will look for me everywhere he goes but will never find another me. That’ll be his biggest regret.
2026-08-06 02:11:54
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◽️⛓️Sil⛓️◽️ :
Let them and find someone who doesn't wanna lose you👍
2026-08-06 04:44:19
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Krull :
Yeah, well in my opinion, they need to get over it and step up. My avoidant was the same way, but that doesn’t excuse not at least trying and putting in some effort and going out of their comfort zone.
2026-08-05 22:56:44
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LJ :
I went through this. They broke up with me. We went through a gray area after. Then I got with someone else. She called me once a week for 2 years waiting for me. Then I came back and ran to her and she fumbled me again. Then I started talking to someone else and now she wants me more than ever. I’m so confused by this
2026-08-05 18:11:18
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runaway_jim :
My DA just crushed me
2026-08-06 02:41:26
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Jonathan Matthew :
Do they ever stop calling? Its super annoying.
2026-08-05 22:00:45
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RG :
What about when it’s a marriage with a toddler involved? He made it to the altar why bail
2026-08-05 23:28:23
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