@johndelony: Most men have a hard time metabolizing the good. We grew up believing we’re only worth our accomplishments, the money in our checking account, and how many attaboys we get. 
And so it’s really tough for us to look at the woman in front of us who is saying, “I don’t care about any of that stuff.” And actually believe them when they say “I just want you.” Delony

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Justin Schuster :
Her actions don't say she loves me.
2026-08-06 20:18:25
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lauratiktokshere
LC :
Most men are trying to impress other men
2026-08-06 06:42:19
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michellehirsch3
Michelle Hirsch :
Who’s raising these men?? Maybe its men teaching men these things??
2026-08-05 22:19:48
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littlesilverwidow
Little silver widow :
Who instilled that belief in men?
2026-08-06 11:42:51
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_channy_24
Chandra :
men still haven’t figured out that men are the ones who value those things, not women
2026-08-06 13:44:27
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jasonlarsen119
JT119 :
My family aren't sports people. Your worth was based on how hard you worked.
2026-08-06 19:48:53
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jon9183719
Jono_than :
Why is the divorce rate so high after a man loses his job?
2026-08-05 22:44:17
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abb57624
abb57624 :
Men mainly do things to impress other men
2026-08-06 16:38:56
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masculinecontainment
Alex Charfen :
Men don't just need to feel successful. They need to feel safe enough to be loved without performing.
2026-08-05 20:26:23
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marandade
marandade :
This is sooooo true! I want my partner for who they’re, not what they conquer
2026-08-05 23:23:04
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lizathla4
lizathla :
Awards are worthless trophies, they don’t make us happy
2026-08-06 05:47:07
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randallpj88
GlitterBear🐻 :
That was a good belly laugh thank you, you realize most men never get that from a woman.
2026-08-05 22:34:38
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jimbobs_maintenance
JimBobs Maintenance :
Teaching my son that I love him, just because. That I want to spend time with him, just because. That his presence is appreciated, just because. Of course we celebrate achievements, but, the real achievement is just him being who he is, unapologetically
2026-08-06 06:02:47
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somedayflyaway
somedayflyaway :
We would rather have time with our s.o. Than him working toward more money, bigger house, fancy car etc. I’d take middle class simplicity with all the quality time every single time.
2026-08-06 02:29:25
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mg09exz
mg09exz :
So this isn’t a man thing, I’ve paid the bills for twenty years, published 11 novels, been in TIME, EW, and USA Today. I still feel defined by those things.
2026-08-05 20:51:50
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peglegbear
PegLegBear :
Different love languages
2026-08-06 18:32:50
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brownschoice445
Brown'schoice445 :
They need to learn that we don’t care about the superficial. We care about the deeper parts of them and who they are.
2026-08-05 20:48:55
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michaelsboost
Michaelsboost :
"Many men aren't emotionally healthy because they were never allowed to have emotions in the first place." ~Terrence Real
2026-08-05 22:47:35
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iamjoedaddy317
joewilliams10st :
This is the first time I’ve disagreed with you Doc.
2026-08-05 20:04:05
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lalelilu2755
moviereel :
all we care about is that you care about us
2026-08-05 23:24:26
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keatonxreads
Keaton Reads 📚 🪐🐲 :
This comment section missed the point entirely. It doesn’t matter who taught him that. What matters is that as his wife you change his perspective. Be his safe space to let that stuff go, just like you want him to be your safe space to feel loved and protected. Stop pointing fingers at other people and take care of each other
2026-08-06 12:56:27
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sars0673
sars :
It means nothing at all to me what you have or achieved, just be kind ,show love and respect that’s all.
2026-08-06 13:30:21
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structuredexpanse
itsallwithin :
The Pain and Stress we went through to gain our Achievements. So it’s more about what went through than it is about the Achievements. So admiring our Achievements is basically saying you understand what we went through to gain our Achievements so mainly it’s a balance
2026-08-05 22:57:45
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vonboerik
vonboerik :
So if I’m working at Walmart 40hrs and help around the house my wife will be happy with me and everything Will
2026-08-06 18:20:34
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56_chevyguy
Sandy :
So since men are expected to respect and appreciate the things that women value shouldn’t women also appreciate and respective things that men value or is it always just a one-way street?
2026-08-06 17:44:01
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