People love to talk about themselves, it makes them feel special when you ask questions and genuinely seem interested in them. That’s why I always try to ask them questions about them and they love it.
2026-09-24 18:28:15
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Hieu Nguyen :
Friends like hanging out with me because they get to talk about themselves the entire time
2026-09-26 16:23:55
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❀ pearlmandy 𓆉⋆.ೃ࿔ :
We’re just really good listeners. And genuinely take interest in people we meet.
2026-09-25 04:06:47
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lo.guth :
Don’t be interesting be interested
2026-09-25 04:42:36
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daniellexoxo :
It’s an empath thing. People love to be heard. Heard and understood
2026-09-25 02:09:20
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Angel Rae :
people like that end up the snakiest or energy vampires tho ... hard pass
2026-09-26 16:20:04
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DrBoogietheedon :
This is how I date. I will date men for years and they never know much about about me or where I live.
2026-09-26 14:06:53
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Chris The Lawyer :
Yes! The most charismatic person Ive ever met was like that! He was a master at taking a genuine interest in what you’re saying. Everyone liked him.
2026-09-25 02:04:30
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🥥 :
Facts! Realist thing I’ve heard on here all year.
2026-09-26 15:39:12
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Niki R :
It’s natural, we just don’t want to talk about ourselves.
2026-09-25 13:42:00
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ifeoma ❦ :
omg wait i do thisssss
2026-09-24 20:57:14
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12345 :
be interested not interesting
2026-08-25 19:28:47
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j.nnine :
My advice when someone is nervous about getting to know someone new is, ask them about themselves. People love talking about themselves.
2026-09-25 00:31:15
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skillet.🍳 :
this + a sense of humor. 🥰
2026-08-27 19:20:19
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samantha ❀ :
wait that’s so true!
2026-09-25 13:58:34
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⋆。˚⟡★𝗕𝗥𝗔𝗡𝗗𝗬★⟡˚。⋆ :
Some of the most insufferable people I’ve met are the ones who are infatuated with themselves and play it off as main character energy. It makes it so hard to build a genuine connection when you feel like the person is just waiting for you to quit talking so they can circle the conversation back to themself. I feel like one of the best traits a person can have…is being considerate and a great listener. Which is rare nowadays. Social media breeds narcissism.
2026-09-25 05:41:30
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Artist Mark Mahorney :
so they're fake 🤷
2026-08-28 19:22:10
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ABRY9999 :
did this for years....and I was popular.....but now Im so tired of them never asking much about me
2026-09-21 22:14:52
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ﻉ๓ٱɭץก :
I cut everyone off, cuz I been a free therapist for others way too long. It felt like I was only a medicine for a little bit till they’re back doing whatever the heckling they wanna do.
2026-09-25 16:33:23
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Tommy Jamma :
I used to work with a difficult person who I had to, on occasion, ask her make a special check run. She was extremely off putting, but I learned that if I asked how her kids were on a regular basis she would help me when I needed a check outside of the normal runs.
2026-09-24 21:22:34
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baxtyr ␄␛ :
The most interesting and intelligent person I know is absolutely hilarious and fascinating to be around. A Marine, turned hippie, turned criminal justice student ending in student mental health advisor today, will somehow bring the perfect ideas back around as a joke later on. In the most incredible way, and with an infectious laugh that amplifies what he's already started in you with his words. Like a master comedian. But sadly, he does not like people, like 99.99% of people he would rather not talk to unless he was paid to. And it makes a lot of sense, but it's sad people don't really get to experience his genius as a friend. He sticks to himself and his wife. Jesse. Y'all don't even know about Jesse. I haven't heard from the dude in like 6 months but I know he's doing well. Dude has zero social media and rarely looks at his phone.
2026-08-28 19:43:35
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Tanka Jahari :
this has always worked well for me
2026-08-28 15:56:05
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Flowmotion_YT :
It's kind of the same, but when I'm in a group, and I see that one person that's not talking much, I like to get the conversation going in a way that they can join in. I like seeing EVERYONE get a chance in the spotlight.
2026-09-25 02:35:08
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TY | Lexus Car Sales ♋️ :
I sit back and let people talk about themselves and then hype them up on it🥰
2026-09-25 11:58:52
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