As a woman my biggest regret was being with someone that didn't have the same values or religion as my family, now my kids have a broken home, and it's only me and it was me being young and stupid, only thinking for the present and not future..... My daughter "loves" her boyfriend, I've seen the family and I go pleeeeease do not be me, or at least do not have kids
2026-08-10 01:14:34
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JJ :
You not marrying her family you’re creating your own.
2026-08-05 20:53:29
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countrythuggin04 :
Wishing I heard this before
2026-08-10 06:21:55
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Trey :
The family you build is more important than the family you come from. That’s all I can say.
2026-08-06 03:41:19
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raquel_richard :
family isn’t always blood. coming from a bad family doesn’t always mean that the woman produced is bad. people change. some people choose to inherit the sin and continue the generational trauma. while others choose to break the cycle and build a new dynamic and break the trauma cycle. marrying the girl doesn’t always mean you marry her family. it’s about building YOUR family, not THEIRS.
2026-08-05 21:22:10
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Cherry :
You’re 💯 marrying the family too!
2026-08-06 14:14:23
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ssaras828 :
Unfortunately if the family doesn’t like the partner of their daughter this can impact the couple. The best solution (if the relationship is worth) is for the girl to cut the relationship with the family. I came from a similar situation and we ended up splitting because of the influence of my father. Imagine meeting your father and all day long reminding you how bad is your partner. You will have this noise in your head 24/7… 😞
2026-08-07 06:33:55
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savagekillith :
Wrong as I’m not marrying her family I’m marrying her. This is what you call being very judgmental and not giving that person a chance at all.
2026-08-06 02:36:40
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charlesryan848 :
celebrating 21 yeats of marriage this October and I DO NOT SOCIALIZE WITH MY WIFE'S FAMILY AT ALL. So it dont make a shit One way or another.
2026-08-07 04:56:04
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ad1535363421 :
If they don’t like me they probably fucked up 👏
2026-08-07 20:16:27
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whelanmike :
“If they don’t like me, they’re f’ed up” 🤣
2026-08-05 22:18:36
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carsonhollis :
This relationship stuff is exhausting. All everyone does is talk
2026-08-07 21:27:42
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Sarah Marie :
deal breaker for real
2026-08-06 17:50:20
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Anna :
I love my in laws. I could have never married into a family I didn’t get along with. I wouldn’t want to deal with that drama and possibly negative emotions, energy etc. it’s wouldn’t be worth it to me and now I have an amazing husband and in laws.
2026-08-06 13:53:50
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G.w21 :
Not true tbh when a man and women come together as one they leave their family so technically you’re marrying him or her and starting your new family. I’m married we both get on well with each others fam but my kids are with me 24/7 I wanted to be a mom so I’m enjoying every second of it I don’t want to share my kids sorry not sorry you can see them when we all hang out
2026-08-07 19:24:58
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Tiktokninzy1 :
Families r controlling & I don’t think they should get involved especially married people! After 21-25 u should make ur choice not families unless u have an hidden agenda!
2026-08-07 18:26:31
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Denise Aguilar :
Marry me please 🙏🏽
2026-08-05 20:55:14
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ANGELA :
This perspective ❤️
2026-08-07 19:20:10
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Alaina Kaye :
Absolutely and what is your partner telling their family…. A lot of people do not keep relationship issues private either which causes people to judge based off events not someone true character
2026-08-06 01:07:41
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“JoShiNN” :
If it was that easy my guy lol
2026-08-06 03:18:25
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Tik Toker :
Ugh 😑
2026-08-07 04:38:38
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mjg_000 :
It’s something to def ponder. What if it’s a 2nd marriage.
2026-08-07 12:29:07
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JAR :
🔥Thanks
2026-08-08 09:17:05
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Colorado Rainbows :
I married one!
2026-08-07 18:23:53
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cindym32 :
I did lol 😝
2026-08-07 18:51:45
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