@heryogimind: #mind #awareness #psychology #fyp

ArtzyErinzy :

They don’t know how to deal with conflict

🌬️Veyrin☯️ :

Shush real emotional intelligence is knowing where someone’s anger comes from and helping them heal it. You sound judgmental guys do t take this advice it’s not good

𝔖𝔥𝔞𝔦 ❤︎ :

I also think it extends to the degree of how much has gone on. If you’re in a situation that you’ve been in for years, you’ve been quiet and “graceful” of the other’s disrespect and lack of consideration/care for your boundaries - and you’ve demonstrated being the mature one in conversations, but they are actively choosing to still disrespect your boundaries and lying to you about the smallest of things..then that anger is stemming from pain, ptsd, etc and you’ve just hit that person’s limit. Now I’m not saying that person is perfect, and obviously still has some work to do. But again-there comes a breaking point when someone is choosing to purposely misunderstand you, in order to avoid communicating honestly. Unhealed will trigger those trying to. Wouldn’t exactly say it’s a lack of emotional intelligence or awareness-because some of us know exactly what is happening, why it’s happening, and how bad it is for both parties- however, we can’t stop the trauma response in that moment-that is why we in turn, will take accountability and apologize after. However, then we’re seen as “manipulative” and “narcissistic” when in reality- in that situation, we know we’re surviving it. Vs in another situation with different people, where we can handle someone disagreeing with how we see things with an open perspective and curiosity. It’s whether or not we feel safe and have that sense of trust built with you. If someone’s hurt you and continues to, then yeah- we burn out emotionally. Anyone with empathy would.

curlyrue :

I think avoidant EI folk fall under this big red flag too. whether they're being defensive or just changing the subject & never revisiting the topic. no empathy, no curiosity ✌️

JessieH25 :

They are narcissist

onetwothree :

I think i have low emotional intelligence as i am set up when someone doesn't agree with me. I am then become very scared and blame /attack myself

NarcissisticAbuseSurvivor :

Right like how tf is it so hard to be like “hhmmm that’s an interesting opinion and I appreciate it, I don’t agree but it’s your opinion so.. 👍🏼 “ like I don’t have to hate someone cuz we disagree on certain things 🤷🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

Shelly per Donna :

There are accounts acting like you I reported and blocked

user2847739101373 :

idk if you can count the online space as a good place to assess this skill. We have to deal with maga on here who never listen to reason and just say stupid shit so it comes a point where you just don't care anymore.

Melo :

Fearful Avoidants to a T

❌ƒᵃᵐ𝐋𝕖𝕘𝕒𝕝 𝐄𝕒𝕘𝕝𝕖📀💿 :

They lack a heart

tt2ehrels :

What about someone that will just walk away

1111Kirsten🇨🇦 :

100%👌

VeeJu :

Agreed!!🫶🙌✨️

m :

🙏💗 absolutetly

Sana :

Yess

Riviea :

Amen!!

Marxmen Cinema 🎥 :