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lol.nahbruv
☾.𖥔 ݁ ˖ִ🛸⃤ :
He's not scared of his Dad, he's scared of the consequences.
2026-08-06 02:25:07
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atlasmelchert
Atlas :
Its not my job to be liked, its my job to raise you right.
2026-08-06 00:35:18
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sunshineandlollipoppers
123sunshine.and.lollipops789 :
so is the wife incapable of disciplining their child?
2026-08-06 08:48:17
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emuemu75
o :
He is still disrespecting his mum though. It hasn’t solved the issue
2026-08-06 09:34:54
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kim_in_bed
kim_in_bed :
So the kid learned what? Not to disrespect his mom *only* when dad is around? How does that make “good kids”?
2026-08-06 20:02:14
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theeerieangel
TheEerieAngel :
The dichotomy of a son getting violent with his mother- only to still cling to her for protection when they feel scared makes me tear up
2026-08-06 18:05:22
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meep0567
meep :
Modeling aggressive behavior for children and then telling them not to be aggressive is counter productive.
2026-08-07 02:43:56
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dylanthepoet
Dylan | Writer | CC 📚🦋 :
Your kids being afraid of you is very very hard to reverse I urge parents to look into alternatives they shouldn’t fear consequences they are a normal part of life
2026-08-06 12:21:33
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rosa_bodain
Beka_C13 🇨🇦 :
That is your wife first his mom second.
2026-08-06 01:36:56
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cleverusername641
Cleverusername :
Its not fear, hes learning to respect authority, which will save his life someday and a whole lot of grief. Dont let your kids get away with violent shit unless its sepf defense
2026-08-06 16:01:37
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blakedempsey0
Bastion :
A kid doesn’t need to fear you. They need to understand how to be respectful to others. Wanting your child to be fearful of you shows you’re not meeting their mental and emotional needs
2026-08-10 19:02:47
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zamac34
Zamac :
If I ever hit my mom she woulda put me thru a wall😂
2026-08-06 21:50:44
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roicastiel
Castiel :
mom teaches love, and dad teaches respect
2026-08-10 07:30:08
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lerswing
LORENCE⚓ :
Gentle parenting is for only gentle kids. period.
2026-08-08 02:05:15
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coryostrom
Cory Ostrom :
parent first, friend second. your job is to prepare them to face the realities of life. sometimes that means teaching them about consequences, sometimes that means being the steady presence when they're spiraling, sometimes that means admitting your pride in their choices, sometimes that means being the bad guy. you're the soft launch of being an adult. you're doing a disservice if you shy away from any of it. it's awful and incredible in the same moment.
2026-08-05 22:57:39
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drb_bluei30n
Drb_bluei30n :
and the parents saying that's wrong is the reason we have 12 year old carrying knives and selling drugs. this country is cooked
2026-08-07 16:57:20
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dwaynewilsoncountrymusic
Dwayne Wilson :
My mom always said to me “I’m not your friend I’m your mother”
2026-08-06 17:41:39
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themantok
Mantok :
for my future kids, you don't get to take your emotions out on mom and then hide behind her when you hear me coming because you know your in shit... you treat mom with respect because she and I are both here to protect you but raise you with good morals
2026-08-06 01:58:31
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confusedretriever
confusedretriever :
Would she rather her son be afraid for 10 minutes after being disciplined for HITTING mom or would she rather be afraid of her son getting her face kicked in for 10 minutes cause she never let dad deal with the root issue?
2026-08-06 13:35:53
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kiltedviking
kiltedviking :
get him therapy so he can work on regulating his emotions. he doesnt need to fear you, he needs to learn how to deal with the emotions he has and come out in a negative way.
2026-08-06 00:55:17
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shaunphilipday
Shaun Philip Day :
Alot of people will never understand this. And thats why we are doomed as a society.
2026-08-10 12:27:06
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jacobcarmel707
jacobcarmel707 :
Lol this is just manipulative abuse and installing fear but only to a child this is terrible parenting
2026-08-07 02:29:33
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muslim.h112.7
H. :
He just explained his failure, the child only behaved when he’s nearby cause it’s fear and not actual understanding of right and wrong
2026-08-10 21:04:43
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_kleorie_
🫐_VyraXYZ_🩵 :
crazy thing is this IS gentle parenting. he didn't hit him, he was stern and made it clear you can't just go around punching people let alone your mother. he did the right thing
2026-09-02 17:00:19
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hurricanevcz
Momonga Supremacy :
Kids are dumb, communication barely functions well, fear is a hell of a teacher, and it’s the most primitive and effective way to learn
2026-08-08 17:12:30
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