@journalwithace: i hate anxious attachment.

no_one :

"I can repost on everyone’s behalf"

killer_bait :

I don’t know how to heal from this.

falcon.879 :

It’s basically part of ADHD & a bit of autism so am abit stuck.. but she accepts it :)

Collins 🍀 :

for everyone who wants to heal (I’m one of them)…first try (ik it’s hard) but try to work on your hobbies and time with friends and family…try to keep yourself occupied because your partner also has life outside the relationship which he/she must continue with…if your dating an avoidant your cooked(nah I’m joking) but if your dating an avoidant whenever they say they need space give them sometime for themselves to find the right words and for them to be okay to communicate with you DONT FORCE THEM TO TALK RIGHT AWAY YOU WILL PUSH THEM AWAY MORE…inshort its so hard to heal anxious attachment more than for an avoidant to heal so stay strong guys your partners loves you so much try not to overthink too…Hope it somehow gives you some light on how to heal from anxious attachment

nikccyy :

i genuinely hate myself for this so much. I wish i was normal so bad...

Realhate :

anxious attachment isn’t spoken about enough.

kiara-leigh🐈‍⬛ :

oh well I guess

Alex.63150 :

Tbh if she doesnt come back im going to stay single forever

Brayden Cloer :

And this is why I’m staying alone forever I cannot handle this feeling anymore

Oabi-Sabi :

You're on the right path buddy, the fact that you know you are *overwhelming* people with love is a sign of self consciousness, next step is to learn self regulation, stopping yourself from doing *too much*

Evanwithrice :

anxious attachment always got something to think about

DSR :

problem is...nobody cares in the end...and we're alone anyway..

T :

reassurance can't fix this, your filter rejects it before it lands.bthat filter is the actual problem, not a lack of love from others. and you don't "love to hard". what you described is fear of loss, not love, and that fear creates the distance ist afraid of. that's good news, "unlovable" can't be fixed but a miscalibrated alarm can.

vaportron :

well well well if it isnt my life story....

mandy.alise1128 :

This just ruined me. Thank you

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𝓗 ✞ 👻 :

Me too bro me too.

rachael :

i try to stop it but in reality i just lose myself doing so

𝐬𝐫𝐢𝐢𝐢🐰 :

silent repost…

Mario González Blanc :

My men, this words hit me hard. If you need some help sometime or someone to listen to you, I’m here for you

Leo :

Just get ghosted by your ex of 3.5 years because they’re an avoidant then you process your feelings and eventually heal and then become a healthy attachment style after processing and feeling your feelings