@theultimatebreakupcoach: **Will my ex forget me if I go no contact?** It's one of the biggest fears people have after a breakup, but the answer is no. I still remember the boy I dated when I was 16. I'm sure there are people you haven't seen for years that you still remember too. We don't just forget people because they stop contacting us. So why does it feel so frightening? Because it's not really about whether they'll forget you. It's about the loss of control. You want certainty. You want reassurance. You don't want to sit with the discomfort of not knowing what they're thinking or feeling. Your mind convinces you that if you stop reaching out, you'll disappear from their life forever. But that's not how people work. No contact isn't about making someone remember you. It's about giving yourself the space to heal, regain your self respect and stop living in a cycle of waiting, hoping and analysing every little thing. If you want to understand how to do no contact properly, **Silence Is Your Superpower** and **The No Contact Theory** are both available on Amazon. And if you have children together and need to navigate limited contact in the healthiest possible way, **Heartbreak & Handovers** was written especially for that situation. You'll find all of my books via the link on my main page. #FYP #Reels #NoContact #BreakupRecovery #Healing

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