@redditdramaspace: AITA for not writing the bride a check when I've spent over $2K on her wedding as a bridesmaid? Update @Two Hot Takes #redditreading #aita #reddit_tiktok #storytelling #redditstorytime
I thought this was universal :
Bridesmaid's dresses, accessories, jewelry, hair and makeup paid by the bride
Bachelorette paid by the bridesmaids split among them
Bridal shower paid by the groom or family
2026-08-06 21:14:35
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Meh :
in my country, the bride pays for ALL the expenses of MOH and bridesmaids. dress, shoes, makup everything. and gets gifts for them. moh and bridesmaids do the bachelorettes / bride to be parties and give a gift to the bride. that's it
2026-08-06 13:39:40
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Nicciw87 :
Here in Ireland we pay for bridesmaids everything dresses, hair, makeup, shoes and jewellery we are asking them to do us a favour. They usually organise and pay for the baclorette
2026-08-05 23:02:29
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RB :
I really hope she doesn’t see this post. Wow. You trashed every single thing. She probably realized good was crap too etc. you didn’t have to send her the 100$🤷🏽♀️. I get the frustration but holy 🤦🏽♀️
2026-08-08 05:55:31
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AmandaW75 :
I paid $100 towards each of my bridesmaids dresses, they were all different dresses and different prices, but none over $200. My bachelorette, each person attending put in some money and it as at my friends house with stuff to do manicures and pedicures with cocktails and nibbles. Then we went to the pub and met up with my husbands bachelor group. My husband and I paid for our own drinks and dinner. We asked for no presents but had a wishing well in case anyone wanted to contribute to our honeymoon fund. Weddings get out of hand so often, but mine was a pretty good representation of all of the weddings I’ve been to or been part of.
2026-08-05 23:30:49
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kjarymy :
Yeah I haven’t spoken to the woman I was the maid of honour for for over a decade now
2026-08-06 01:55:13
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Dawn 🇨🇦 :
Family should have paid and done shower. I paid for my girls dresses flower and gift.
2026-08-05 23:29:21
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RB :
How did the rest of the wedding party feel ? Sounds like she didn’t care about anyone’s bills that need to be paid 🤦🏽♀️
2026-08-06 04:26:16
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Dawn 🇨🇦 :
Did bride pay for anything or family. Doesn’t seem like it.
2026-08-05 23:27:11
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Monique willow Pohio :
😁😁😁
2026-08-06 02:31:53
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