@nycdivorce: You don't owe your spouse anything, but that's not the point.

James J. Sexton
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Wednesday 05 August 2026 23:38:23 GMT
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yogiandme4
Marianne Lopez :
You give,You'll get. You get back what you put in.
2026-08-06 21:57:14
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robertc8660
robertc8660 :
it's not normal for a man to have only one woman.
2026-08-06 21:45:34
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mamamoose1976
Mamamoose :
Sex work is real work. Is that what you mean?
2026-08-06 21:35:04
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brookecatlin25
brookecatlin25 :
It’s hard to desire a man who emotionally neglects you
2026-08-06 16:59:12
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big8red
BigRed :
Every man who has lost sex in their relationship should read what these women are saying in these comments. Trust me if you treat her right she'll give you the intimacy you need
2026-08-06 10:54:22
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victoria555111
Victoria555111 :
When men behave like and additional child it's hard to desire them.
2026-08-06 11:01:54
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loveofweekends1
453278865433 :
Unfortunately we live in a very broken world
2026-08-06 21:33:31
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saltghost508
SaltGhost :
It’s tough to want to have sex with a man if he doesn’t contribute or take care of himself.
2026-08-06 00:59:01
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charnellesolomons
coco :
he withholds emotional connection I withhold sexual access and that's just fine with me .
2026-08-06 04:13:23
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altai82
... altai... :
it is so sad ..that it is all about seggs...🤔
2026-08-06 13:30:00
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dr.carlig
dr.carlig :
James Sexton sees the couples right at the end of the relationship, usually in unhappy circumstances because he's taking care of the divorce. Esther Perel takes care of couples that still carry on - listen to her perspective too. It's obviously more complex than the simple math of wants and needs and she gets deeply into that.
2026-08-06 07:24:12
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elfieanne.xx
elfie :
it's a bit hard to desire a man when he leaves his dirty socks on the coffee table and only does 30% of the housework
2026-08-06 01:08:39
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madeleinecorbould
mady :
When men don’t allow our nervous system to relax then sex is off the table. It’s not a biological need
2026-08-06 01:55:34
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karijo2035
karijo2035 :
Testosterone replacement helps! Lol. Men need to be in tune to his wife's needs as well…
2026-08-06 21:44:23
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shellbk78
shellbk78 :
Ever thought of asking WHY your wife no longer wants to have sex with you? I can guarantee its not because she doesnt like sex. Maybe think about how you were treating her when she did feel safe and connected enough with you to want it. Just a thought. 🙄
2026-08-06 03:06:56
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jeygoth
Jeygoth :
So basically just don’t get married.
2026-08-06 06:06:54
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tmt022
TMT :
If you look at the statistics, most divorces happen in the late 30s and 40s. That is, when your hormones are dipping, you're starting the perimenopause and yes men are too. Vitamins and minerals in our body are also depleting. My best advice, (from someone who has gone through a rough patch and has stuck through it with my partner of 25 years). Get your hormones and vitamins levels checked (women and men, both)Next, start communicating exactly what you want and how you want it. Then start working towards it together and give it time. (you might have to say it more than once👍)
2026-08-06 15:42:46
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jeanettedodgers07
Jeanette :
When the man disrespects you and belittles you all day long, sex is not the first thing on a woman’s mind! When he hides his phone, takes advantage, lies, steals, expects you to pay 50/50. Why would a woman want to have sex?
2026-08-06 04:49:28
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twirlygirll
Twirlygirl 🌲☕️🥾 :
The idea that a woman’s one job in a marriage is to provide sex completely misses how healthy relationships actually work. If you promise to clean the garage and a year later it’s still sitting there… if you promise to take her out on Saturday and instead spend the day on the couch… if she spends her time taking care of the house and you walk in and leave a trail of mess behind you… if you repeatedly break your word, stop putting effort into the relationship, and expect her to carry the mental and physical load… Don’t act shocked when intimacy starts to disappear. Physical intimacy doesn’t exist in a vacuum. For many women, it’s connected to feeling loved, respected, valued, and like they’re in a real partnership. You cannot neglect your relationship, become emotionally unavailable, repeatedly disappoint your spouse, or treat her like an afterthought, and then reduce the problem to, “Her job is to provide sex.” A lot of men don’t lose their marriages because they stopped having sex. They lose them because they got comfortable, stopped investing in the relationship, and expected intimacy to survive on autopilot.
2026-08-06 16:18:11
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wycombe14
Britgirl14 :
How freaking sad is that. That men are so reliant on sex
2026-08-06 13:27:34
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myob70
Melani Jones :
Married men feel entitled to sex with no effort.
2026-08-06 16:22:34
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jessicamarie321
Jessica Marie :
I did all and more... he cheated... its a character flaw... unhealed humans
2026-08-06 00:11:23
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codywarrenblades
Cody Warren-Blades :
I think men should figure out why their wives don’t want to have sex with them and make it more attractive to them.
2026-08-06 19:03:58
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jaeteal
Jae Teal I-/ :
So what’s it when it’s the man that stops?
2026-08-06 03:54:12
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