@itstime4me2fly: Replying to @TennJeannie You can stop talking about your trauma when you’re ready to stop talking about it. Trauma has a way of sticking around, popping back up. I will continue healing out loud. #itstime4me2fly #movingon #betrayaltrauma #affairrecovery
Their mad about losing their lifestyle and security
2026-08-06 07:32:43
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Naomi Shippen Thriller Author :
Abusive men rely on silence, so keep talking.
2026-08-06 05:33:07
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Xmas Carol :
I will never get over the betrayal. 2 1/2 years later I’m still so broken. Having to sell the my family home of 32 years. Being financially vulnerable in my senior, retired years is devastating. I HAVE LOST EVERYTHING - BECAUSE HE HAD AN AFFAIR! Make it make sense!!! 💔
2026-08-06 01:24:29
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youcancallmehiggins :
You’re offering hope to women in similar circumstances.
2026-08-06 10:12:11
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KY dog mom :
16 years and I am not over it. I won’t ever trust again.
2026-08-06 03:26:38
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Pam Griffin :
I’m at year 9.5. I was married for 30 years. This is my year that I feel like I can move forward. We do joint birthday parties for the grandkids. I can actually talk to the mistress/wife and the ex in short verbal exchanges without thought. What helps the most is the toddler and preschool grandkids run and hug me, and just look at them as friends of their parents. The grandbabies have helped with the healing.
2026-08-06 15:54:22
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LisaT :
I talk about it now like it happened to someone else, 15 years later.
2026-08-06 11:15:15
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32islandmaria :
I’ve been divorced 30 years I was only married 12 and I’m still traumatized!
2026-08-07 22:46:36
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Patty G :
Take all the time you need. We’re here to help with the healing simply by listening.
2026-08-06 02:46:25
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Suzyque :
You are the example othrr women might need.
You are a survivor and you survived it with class and dignity. I would be talking about it too. You had a major life event.
2026-08-06 11:47:49
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sbro577 :
Girl, you are nowhere near done talking about it yet. It takes years to get over the divorce the betrayal the lies. After my ex and I got divorced, we still fought in court for the next six years before he finally left me alone. I was in divorce therapy for three years after the divorce just to deal with his behaviors.
2026-08-06 01:18:49
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Juror19 :
YOU are the only reason that I didn’t feel so alone in the early days of my craziness.
2026-08-06 01:29:01
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Etherbunny51 :
Are you comfortable answering if he has been paying alimony? I remember months ago, you mentioned he stopped.
2026-08-07 13:24:49
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ContraryMary :
Some things will last forever …you will find yourself being triggered by someone different because of your trauma w your ex.
2026-08-06 10:25:14
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i_am_the_almighty ♌️ :
I used to feel so awful when someone would say, “when will you get over it???” Not anymore. I now understand that I’ll heal at my own pace. I never imposed my story on anyone but I would never tell someone to just get over it. It’s painful, you were harmed, and stuff like that doesn’t just magically disappear overnight.
2026-08-06 19:27:06
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Enrica66 :
I have ptsd and the infidelity is part of why I have it.
2026-08-06 19:50:25
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Leah :
I’m still healing after 3.5 years. 😩
2026-08-06 01:36:22
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Lyn :
Don’t please 💕
2026-08-06 11:28:19
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Joyce77 :
Have you talked to him within the past 6 months? Since things didn’t work out with his girlfriend do you think he regrets what he did?
2026-08-06 01:53:44
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BecB :
I don’t think anyone has the right to say when you should stop grieving or talking about trauma that’s happened to you. This is personal and it happened to you, everything about it is unique to your circumstances and if it helps you to share, keep sharing. Perhaps one day you’ll decide it’s time to move on, but it will always be a part of you.
2026-08-06 01:22:34
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golfergirl84 :
♥️♥️❤️❤️
2026-08-06 17:22:58
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Melissa Henry :
It’s been 30 years since mine left me. And today a trigger hit me hard. I don’t think we ever get past.
2026-08-10 21:49:30
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Mar :
Im constantly in a flight or fight mode
2026-08-30 21:21:14
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