we should not be promoting choking without making clear how dangerous it actually is. brain damage can happen and not everyone knows this
2026-09-02 18:11:03
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Krista Peters :
tattoos and piercings are mental healthcare and I will not back down on this
2026-08-06 08:54:09
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o4phexake :
developing hypersexuality is also a common response to SA for the same reason, to regain a sense of control and to overwrite the bad experience with more and better ones
2026-09-02 16:52:54
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DandiNanners3369 :
Can you now put this in front of everyone against Haunting Adeline?
2026-08-06 18:44:24
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user1992071803680 :
It's really important for victims of SA to do research into bdsm if they engage in it because it can have after effects and I learned that the hard way. Basically, consent and aftercare. That's the gist
2026-08-06 16:19:54
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mogs 🆘🇺🇸 :
Hold my hand at least 😭
2026-09-07 05:19:51
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Kiki :
Kinks, speaks volumes
2026-09-06 21:04:48
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Sim :
BDSM can heal trauma
2026-09-07 20:26:46
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Nav Therizo🩷💜💙 :
Also: reading/writing media that contains these things as well.
2026-09-02 20:15:13
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Disneyboops ✨🫶🏻 :
And to take back control over a situation
2026-09-06 21:44:41
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Llyn_Marie96 :
I had intense punishment trauma from belt spankings until I was 16, and I HEALED healed with a safe partner that accommodated that happening on MY terms… you are correct
2026-08-06 19:31:03
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『B』『i』『n』『x』 :
CNC and a a few other things I’m into I’ve noticed are due to being SA’d. Not really sure how to feel about it because it makes me feel gross when I think about it sometimes.
2026-08-06 20:24:21
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Sarah C :
100% true. But for the love of god please vet your play partners properly. Love your 41yr old kinky tik tok aunty.
2026-09-07 12:10:40
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greyskies83 :
Ma’am- HOW does the algorithm know this. And how, does it know, that my clearly defined and established and agreed upon hard limits, were ignored, while trying to do what you just explained, safely.
2026-09-07 02:37:31
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NappingTheThird🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈 :
Please remember though, if you do try this, make sure you do so safely! Study it, make sure you know the rules, and COMMUNICATE!!
And always always always make sure that you can trust the person you're asking to do this to you!
2026-08-06 02:38:04
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404 :
I was crashing out yesterday because of this thank u for talking about because i feel so disgusted in my thoughts
2026-08-06 08:44:41
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SOFARSOFAKE :
Remember folks. Your dom is not a dom if they do not dig into you about after care and emotional drops after play. They are literally responsible for checking in on you, there will be a physical/emotional response after intense scenes. Please pick people you trust and please be gentle with yourselves.
2026-09-03 01:07:17
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🏳️⚧️Wesker's Creamy Bussy :
normalize survivors and victims freely reclaiming their power and sense of self. it happens in many ways, written stories, art, kinks and play. its just reliving the trauma in a way you control the narrative.
always remember youre loved and you matter ♥️
2026-09-02 19:49:12
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Steph :
THANK YOU SO MUCH. I was raped and molested from birth to 19 years old. I got into BDSM and bondage because I had read a story about a woman using it to help her cope and process her abuse. It's been wonderful. The leaps and bounds I've made have made my therapists cry. It isn't for everyone but I promise it does help and can even change your life for the better if you give it a chance
2026-08-09 05:56:59
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user53761104521025 :
genuine question, could this also be a result of someone’s self harm urges?
2026-08-06 03:48:19
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honeybee :
it's like exposure therapy via rewriting the story at a subconscious level. Similar to how EMDR moves an active trauma trigger and flashback into long term memory so it stops reacting as if it's happening in real time, perhaps?
2026-08-07 01:56:59
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Persephxne :
I’ve realized that I have k!nks related to abuse I’ve been through. It was very interesting when I realized that.
2026-08-06 19:30:04
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mel :
oh that explains a lot
2026-09-01 22:25:39
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