@kalmanexplains: Men are told to do better, women are told to look for better #SelfImprovement #mensadvice #datingadvice

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mangojmg1je
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under HATED
2026-08-07 10:19:55
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hadsabshuut
haamoon :
because feminism is built on contradictions which leads to confusion
2026-08-07 05:47:51
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user8771826029681
Manasseh :
they say "date someone you can afford, and don't date if you don't have money" now what if I can afford 4?
2026-09-27 20:55:49
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deamon.on.black
loslfi guista :
Who created feminism?
2026-08-09 02:01:34
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neo_phantom0
NeoStar :
And if we try to “vent”, people think we’re just complaining and that we should just keep going. Clearly people don’t know that men are not machines, but human beings with feelings and minds
2026-09-26 02:05:09
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young_asto26
lil_Gugi :
being a woman in 2026 is soo ez i wish i can switch genders
2026-08-07 09:21:19
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thelungsucker
the lung sucker 🀄 :
Lol. Your argument completely falls apart here. Because society imposes countless norms on women in order for them to have a partner and be considered suitable for a relationship or marriage. Women are expected to meet certain beauty standards; to be thin, well-groomed, young, feminine, to have a certain kind of body and face, and to present themselves in a way that is appealing to men, from their hair to their clothes. Their sexuality is constantly policed as well; they are expected to be attractive but not “too sexual,” inexperienced or “pure” enough to be considered respectable, yet sexually desirable and available to their husbands. Women are expected to be quiet, calm, understanding, patient, agreeable, and “not too difficult”; they are expected not to express their anger, demands, or discomfort too openly, not to hurt a man’s ego, to back down during arguments, and to put a man’s career, life, and needs before their own. They are expected to cook, clean, raise children, serve their husbands, and take on all of these responsibilities as if they were simply “natural duties of being a woman.” They are also expected to support the man, stand behind him, “complete” him, and, when necessary, sacrifice their education, career, social life, or personal freedom for him. Women are expected to be faithful, obviously, but they are also often expected to accept a man’s jealousy, possessiveness, and controlling behavior as signs of love. They are expected to get married by a certain age, not “wait too long,” have children, avoid choosing to live alone, and make building a family their natural goal as a “good woman.” And even when a woman does not want any of these things, she is constantly pressured with comments like, “You’re too picky,” “No one will accept you like this,” “Your biological clock is ticking,” “You’ll end up alone,” or “A woman’s purpose is to build a home.” You can choose not to call any of this societal pressure on women. You can even give it different names, like “not being a slut,” “being a good wife,” or “fulfilling your duties as a woman.” But changing the name of something does not make the pressure disappear.
2026-08-09 20:09:12
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neghafish
Negha-Fish :
And somehow men are not the prize 😂 we elevate their lives way more than they can elevate ours 🤦🏾
2026-08-06 19:00:06
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anitalemax
anitalemax :
I’m a girl and I 100% agree
2026-08-07 03:13:04
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cubezarebeterthentubes
Cubez :
Took me a long time to realize "you deserve to be loved for who you are" was only ment for girls
2026-09-02 13:50:48
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jap1xx
J@p1 :
I just don't care anymore
2026-08-07 13:44:51
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robur2137
robur :
It wont ever change
2026-08-07 14:03:04
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mgirldcadjs
Justgirlythings :
We just gotta be extremely beautiful and young. Which are things you have little to no control of. Hope this helps
2026-08-08 12:20:47
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picadillybojangles
picadillybojangles :
You are only responsible for you. You are not responsible for training women.
2026-08-06 19:17:42
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lithiumgd
LithiumGD :
but its harder to be a woman because you might get 5% less money
2026-08-08 10:27:35
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alewstone
Alex :
Every time I think I understand the Salen Drev story, another detail shows up that makes it stranger.
2026-09-02 23:15:01
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simoncodswallap
simon :
Men waking up
2026-08-07 12:52:05
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don_omarr_
don_omarr_ :
Periods should be a daily thing
2026-08-19 17:02:50
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anonymoussg07
anonymous♍ :
Just don't date anymore
2026-08-08 19:06:57
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alxx6258
alxx :
Periods should be hourly
2026-08-11 23:35:49
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vance.camponi
Vance Camponi :
stay single fellas. The dream of live and marriage is a lie. you will be so much happier on your own.
2026-08-13 01:58:46
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dasboot702
DasBoot :
And we are told that if we want loyalty or respect it’s insecurity
2026-08-07 00:28:27
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pulpyorangejuice0
🕺🏻 :
My father never told me to “just exist” to get a good man. He told me to get one I match with. If I want him to build a shelf? I gotta be able to cook a meal. I want him to protect me? I gotta be nurturing. If I want one who doesn’t go to clubs? I shouldn’t go either. I want one who is intelligent? I gotta be one too. And so on. In reality, literally no one is forcing you to date the women who don’t match your values. Some of ya’lls issue is that you expect something you can’t give back.
2026-08-08 18:03:46
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marcfun
Marc :
don't forget, it must be men's fault.
2026-08-08 03:43:19
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aydenterminarer07
Leaves 🍃 :
One feminist writer wrote about how women might not be as oppressed as they think. She argues that because men don’t feel like they have an inherent value just for existing they’re pushed to do more extreme things for better or for worse
2026-08-06 07:03:19
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