@aetherius_word:

uknome :

book name please?

Hearts & Stars :

I wanted it to be you, but I need to walk away, wanting you shouldn't hurt this much

myra_zxs on ig :

My suitor rn said "Can you atleast be kind towards me? I feel like I can't and I will never reach you if you continue treating me like this. I've been adjusting everyday just to suit to your mode" and Idk how to respond🤦‍♀️

Mooie :

To my avoidant frnd, i can’t shrink myself just to make you feel secure. i kno u’ve traumatized by ur past, but sorry i cant make myself traumatize as well. I just want you to love yourself more, so that i showering you with love. I show u the love, too bad you didn’t see it. Im still right here but i can’t go deeper to let my ship sinks

moo :

to my avoidant matcha bear, if this comment finds you. know that I tried to love you the way you wanted to be loved. all the space and time for yourself. I never asked for a lot, no dates, surprises and I never even asked you to make it up to me for all the times you cancelled our dates and my family trip invites in the last 4 years. I never truly asked for a lot, but I absolutely hated it when you showed up for others but never for me. You colleagues, your game buddies and whatever guild you're playing on. It broke me to never be on the top priority list. Even when your own father subtly yelling you to treat me right, you probably never caught on that no? You've always ran away from your feelings BUT you were not this way in our first 2 years. so what changed? I always gave you my all until you gave me nothing. I never asked a lot because I know it makes you pull away. But do I have to keep comprising and diminishing myself? Do I have to be on death's bed again just for you to show up for me? I'm tired. We're not building out future. I AM building a future for us. I was always the one holding yhe relationship together, always making it work out, always fixing it. Whatever cool off period you needed, 3 days or even more? I let you have it. But why is too much for you yo be held accountable? I tried to show you a love you never had, but now I get why you've never had it. I adore you, always. But this time, since you let me go, I'm walking away so I can heal. I hope one day, in your next relationship, you'll finally realize how to make it work out. Take her to Japan for me. Sincerely yours, secure made anxious attachment 🩵🩵

SANSS :

"If u can see me the way I see myself, u wouldn't love me either." 🥀

Kuy's Ed :

i am here to prove to her that she deserves to wait, idc how long it takes because loving someone you need to be patient just like Jacob he waited 7 years for Rachel because of the love the 7 years of wait feels like days.

tine2explore :

book name pls

Mad :

Ik we can turn toxic but we don’t mean to. Those voices are just louder and it holds us painfully like it’s a suffocating home. We are sorry and so, you’re better off without us.

Account not found :

He told me he loved me, but that was before I found out that he had someone else. Turns out, he got into an argument with his gf before he met me. I'm just a girl for him to release his stress. After almost three years together, he left without saying a word and blocked me everywhere. I thought I did something wrong, so I searched for him but I found his gf social account instead with their photos on her profile. Then I realised I'm nothing to him but still couldn't accept it and got sick until now. Should've see the sign that he's been dry texted me. Since that, I become an avoidant person. I'm afraid to be in a relationship and might hurting other people's feelings because of my past

Leigh :

virtual hugs for those avoidant folks. I feel your pain. 🤧🫂

heesy :

book name?

GEM💎 :

And i think no one can even bare with me at all.

ᓚᘏᗢ :

i have to start loving myself first

its.roseepivoine :

Bruh did you open my notes app?

lab :

Testing the theory worked, at least I got my answer

ping♡ :

I see you clearly, and I still love you. ❤️🌸 But I cannot heal for you. I pray, that one day you'll give yourself a chance to love and let the other person love you back. be brave.

aster :

I’m still waiting for you, if you knew.

b∆izura :

this kind of love, it's gonna hurt me anyway

jessonlimit :

reading the comment section made me wondering why is love can be a hurtful experience for some. like wdym two people have a deep connection but unable to make it last? i don't get it why God makes us learn it in a hard way

janeng 🐿️ :

🌙 :

love is something hard for me to receive i can give it willingly to others but never to myself and i am awkward getting it in return.

morningstarogga :

Will it ever get better? 💔

lily :

the world never been kind to us right. push us too hard, now we have to turn on our survival mode all time and forget to turn in off.