Bro I had a crush on an older guy at 14, He was like 19/20 when we were talking on FB (in Uni already). He asked for my age after a while I told him but added "I'm told I'm mature for my age" He legit said no no no, find me when you're 20 and blocked me😃😃. I was so hurt then lmaoo but I'm so grateful now.
2026-08-10 06:30:28
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brenda.fussy 🇿🇦🇫🇷 :
When I was 13/14 I was desperately in love with my cousin’s friend. He was in his 20s. I used to dm him on FB and ask him on dates. He never once responded and eventually blocked me. I was so hurt at the time and didn’t understand why he blocked me but in retrospect I had to voetsek immediately. 🙏🏾
2026-08-08 12:34:13
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Mrs M :
A teen having a crush on an adult is actually normal teen behaviour, its up to the adult to say no!
2026-08-10 10:13:00
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nooooomssiee :
My final year dissertation was “CONSENT FOR MEDICAL TREATMENT OF MINORS IN RELATION TO RELIGION AND CUSTOMARY PRACTICES” and I used this EXACT thesis in my research.
2026-08-07 16:41:23
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zaidi :
yes girl you're doing the world huge service, my friend once told me about aproaching a older guy she knew liked her she offered herself to him, he refused her and told her shes a child threatened to tell her parents
2026-08-06 12:58:45
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xbsix007 :
Eyi we trying to tell them
2026-08-07 03:01:28
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I'm just a boy 😭 🇵🇸🇨🇩🇸🇩 :
May you be granted with all you desire!!!
2026-08-07 07:09:25
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Kanyo💋 :
The way that they glaze over the fact that they’re attracted to children. Bethuna how do you sleep with a teenager and less at as an adult😭I’m at my wits end
2026-08-06 22:17:28
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Lebo🇵🇸🇨🇩🇸🇩 :
I was 12 and I had a huge crush on my brother’s friend who was 16 at the time, he sat me down and explain how that is wrong. It was the most embarrassing thing for me at the time but now that I am older? Forever grateful he did that.
2026-08-10 08:20:22
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Khanyisile :
One guy asked to see my ID. We were out on a date and he thought I definitely didn’t look 20, which I was but man the respect I had for him after, we weren’t compatible but we ended up being really good friends
2026-08-09 08:52:10
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Kagiso :
people always ignore these parts. children are naughty and will get themselves into trouble without proper supervision. older women can be pedophiles too but that is completely ignored and people act like boys can't be taken advantage of. im glad more people are being honest and open
2026-08-07 11:12:30
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Saya Fierce-Jones🇿🇦 :
Also: the Domestic Violence Act now recognizes coersion, especially when there's a power dynamic. & if you suspect someone is committing DV against a vulnerable person, like minors, it's unlawful not to report it.
2026-08-10 13:30:29
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re.moneilwee :
The fact that most males I’ve spoken to about virginity have said that they broke it with someone older than them whilst they were 12-15 years. And they didn’t even see anything wrong with it because they are kids!!
2026-08-10 05:53:02
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Soso Duze :
EXACTLY IT MUST BE CLEAR WHO THE ADULT IS
2026-08-10 01:47:52
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Kgeleke :
I've always maintained the question "who's the adult in this situation?" you must make the decision not the child.
2026-08-09 05:20:25
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Life Reset With Boni :
My groomer just tried to contact me just this past week! Imagine the disgust I felt, blocked on Whatsapp and calls. I attended my uncle's funeral and he went to my grandmother's home and asked for my number. Yo, I lost it hey. I lost it !
2026-08-09 12:28:36
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K_urve :
there's probably like 3 men like him left in South Africa💔
2026-08-07 16:26:47
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ltb :
I get tired explaining this to human adults.
what do you mean they want it too🤨
2026-08-07 05:03:38
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andymaqondwana1 :
How do I repost this 100 more times!
2026-08-07 15:18:12
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melomatlala02 :
Anyone under 24 IS A CHILD!!! Their frontal lobes are still developing. No one can't convince me otherwise. WE AS THE ADULTS NEED TO PROTECT OUR CHILDREN.
2026-08-09 21:07:34
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Dora Thee Explorer🐙❤️ :
My FYP ATE!
2026-08-10 14:02:09
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mrs_og2_ :
Following because my research is centred around S28❤️
2026-08-09 11:49:39
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