@sabfortony: i think about my past self a lot and wish i could’ve held her, sat in her grief with her, loved her, talked about tony with her, cried with her, laughed with her. she was so lonely… bearing the unimaginable weight of this loss, dreading every single day, wondering how she was going to survive this, sitting still as the rest of the world continued moving. 1,337 days later, she’s doing the impossible. she’s living another day with hope, not by pretending this loss never happened, but by facing all the highs and lows of her journey. there were people who wanted to silence her, who told her how she’s grieving is wrong, who judged her for living her life. and thankfully, she didn’t listen and chose to live the only way she knew how, which was through sharing the grief and pain. i am no grief expert. i’m just a girl doing her best and figuring things out as she goes. if you’re wondering how you’ll survive this, i promise you that you will. oftentimes, it’ll be because you have no other choice. but over time, it’ll be more and more because you want to stay. that doesn’t mean the grief and pain don’t exist because it always will, but alongside that, life will be beautiful too. and you’ll slowly build a life you can love again while carrying the love for and from your loved ones forward. so keep choosing to stay. 💗 #griefsupport #griefandloss #rebuild #HealingJourney #widow

Sabrina 🫶🏼 life after loss
Sabrina 🫶🏼 life after loss
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uzimom08
UziMom :
You are doing amazing. And I love that this is your journey: growing, surviving, living for you and Tony. Rooting for you girlie ❤️
2026-08-21 04:32:41
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justingltz
Justin :
You're so strong❤️‍🩹 I couldn't handle it
2026-08-06 14:00:49
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mandyreneech
Renee :
You’re carrying his legacy and love so well! So proud of you 🥹🥹🥹🥹
2026-08-20 20:40:54
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gemmy1635
Gemmy163 :
I have been here since the start of your grief journey. thank you for sharing your ups and downs as you navigate through it. I don't think you realize just how many others you've helped deal with their own grief journey. whether its the loss of a partner, parents, siblings, friends or pets - grief is a universal pain we all deal with at some point in life and I appreciate you sharing you journey and helping us heal along the way 💜😊
2026-08-21 23:40:08
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st4r_lovesnurse
APR1L !! ★ :
up there he is proud of u
2026-08-06 14:02:18
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denisenotdennis4
DeniseNoTDennis :
I'll never forget the post where you were eating that last dish Tony made for you. I knew that feeling so well. You have done so well. Watching you tackle your grief has truly helped me also tackle mine. Friday will mark year 5 without my husband. I still cry but not as often. My heart is still so tender but I know I will make it through the day. Thank you for sharing your grief. You are a blessing and I know you're making Tony so proud. Thank you Sabrina. From one widow to another. Keep taking care of Tony's girl bc we need her too. 💛
2026-08-09 12:25:31
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stellashon
Stella | SJS & Scleral Lens :
Such a beautiful tribute ❤️
2026-08-06 21:10:59
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biancapoopy
Bianca :
Hi Sab, I just lost my boyfriend of almost 9 years about 2 months ago. I find all of your posts very comforting… found and met brave women who share the same pain with me. It’s my first time experiencing grief this heavy and it’s good to know joy and grief can co-exist. I still can’t imagine the next few days, months, years of my life without him. My world stopped when he passed, but somehow the world moved on and continued without him. So unfair but I’m taking it day by day. I may not understand yet how things have to happen the way it did, but I know in my heart he’s in a much better place. Sending you hugs 🦋🪽
2026-08-09 06:35:37
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christineluchavez8
tine❤️ :
Sending you a virtual hugs❤️
2026-08-06 14:02:19
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sarahcaroline.m
Sah :
Living for them… proud of you, girl!! 🩷
2026-08-06 14:44:20
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cyjunivers
shining stars 05⭐💫 :
hey guys soo plz don't judge me or anything but I am a bit new so can anyone tell me how her husband passed away plz if anyone know
2026-08-20 15:12:13
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444dumpling
(๑˃̵ᴗ˂̵) :
Hes so proud of you and so are we 🥹
2026-08-06 15:11:18
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kiwileina
Kiwi :
I’m so sorry for your loss but you got this and are strong and you can do this! You’re already doing great! <3
2026-08-07 08:22:40
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d_autumnstar
daph :
people say grief gets better with time and for some it may never will, but its nice to see that you have lived with it and doing the best you can by choosing to live. pls nv stop talking abt Tony... wished I was a follower then cus he seems like such a cool and funny guy. 😊
2026-08-07 00:49:59
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changchannn99
Hoangtrang99 :
Hi sab, I deeply admire the love you and your husband shared; I believe that, wherever he is, he continues to love and support you. I hope you live a truly happy and fulfilling life. Sending you my love.
2026-08-12 15:51:20
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sunshine12097
Sunshine :
One day grief and happiness will coincide and they’ll be proud of us in heaven 🥹 From all the hearts you’re healing and inspiring, Thank you Sabrina xx 🥺💕💜
2026-08-06 19:27:49
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jedepewe
JDPW :
the same experience here... thank u for sharing... I am going thru days without my late husband for almost 10 months now 🥲🥲🥲... super damn hard!!... salute to you!!
2026-08-06 14:46:55
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tiffanytheo2
Tiffany :
💗
2026-08-12 02:11:55
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soliesunny
ha :
🫂🫂🫂🫂 I know he's smiling at you
2026-08-18 04:35:38
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cms13xo
C :
Omg you pop up on here every now & then, and I always remember you are grieving your Tony who made you the food that was frozen & you ate it after he passed. I cry every time I realise. I can’t tell you how that video stayed with me. I hope you keep showing up & showing us how far you’ve come each time 🥺❤️
2026-08-09 00:01:35
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0carolinew0
🌟ᴄᴀʀᴏʟɪɴᴇ 🌟 :
hi Sabrina losing loved ones is so hard it feels like it will never get better but I want to say you really are an inspiration and an amazing role model . you are so strong keep going we all have your back ❤️
2026-08-15 16:59:02
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xdnia_vn
xy☕︎ :
You’re my role model btw, you’re so strong, I hope I could reach the state what you are right now
2026-08-14 05:43:18
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