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Goreface_13 :
It’s self sabotage.
2026-08-07 23:11:36
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Kiona Van der velden :
i dont have friend. people try to be friends with me and i an always nice to everyone, but i let nobody come close. i dont even know how to let people be close to me. i had mutilble friends in my past that stpped me in the back and hurt me alot. i always have been a easy target. im lonely so lonely but even if i want to make friends, my mind and body would not let me
2026-08-07 09:43:15
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yque736 :
Huh. I cut everyone off at work. Part of me says that was not ok. But the rest of me feels liberated and so peaceful. I knew they would one day all betray me. The signs were everywhere! The snickering, the subtle jabs at me, the constantly asking me for stuff without ever asking me if I was ok. Then the disrespect- one after another. Until I was done. I walked in one day as serious as I could be. Said nothing to every single person, ignored hellos, eye contact, and sat in silence. They lost the one person who truly cared about every single one of them. The one who brought cheer and laughter because they took my kindness for weakness for the last time in my life. I’m still happy. But not around them; around them I’m serious and quiet. And now, they have no joy, nobody talks, nobody plans potlucks or decorates the office, nobody engages or studies together. I took my happiness and left them their misery. In return I have peace.
2026-08-07 04:03:52
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alexis :
I tend to block people out or ghost as they say
2026-08-08 02:00:05
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Outlanders :
People call it toxic: because it is
2026-08-07 15:10:11
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vintageafterdark :
Last summer, I cut off my friends because they became distant and reconnected with my ex-best friend from high school. We became incredibly close so quickly, we were always together or on FaceTime, knew each other’s deepest secrets, and felt like we only needed each other. A few months ago, she became distant, so I ghosted her and unfollowed her, secretly hoping she’d reach out. She eventually did, but what she said wasn’t what I expected, and shortly after, she cut me off out of nowhere. We haven’t talked since, and it’s honestly tearing me apart because I really thought our friendship would last.
2026-08-08 06:03:04
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Maura :
Yep...when I fear abandonment it's like a switch flips, I grow cold and remove myself before I'm removed. I do care and it does hurt but it hurts more to be left behind.
2026-08-18 17:12:01
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Розалина 🎀 :
Actually as a girl with bpd I just leave if I think I’m going to be abandoned
2026-08-15 04:17:36
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V :
when i love someone, i obsess wether they’re ‘the one’ for me or they’ll just betray me like everybody else. i feel crazy at times. i am ashamed. i feel like i am burning alive when in reality i am just in a relationship.. maybe i really dont know anything about love at all..
2026-08-10 06:33:34
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🌸 je m’appelle bee :
and my bf is always like “you don’t care about me” “you don’t miss me” and bro doesn’t understand that I withdraw because I miss him and I care 😭
2026-08-08 09:34:38
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Rosie <3 :
I have all the sympathy in the world for them but it damn near got me killed. Never would I ever wish this hell on anyone. NEVER date someone with BPD. It’s bad for you and them too.
2026-08-24 16:56:14
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Kyra 💖 :
What’s the difference between bdp and being avoidant ?
2026-08-23 17:14:21
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MichaeBanc :
song?
2026-08-17 17:47:25
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lilchickenbabyttv :
How do you explain to someone one comment could literally make you feel like your insides are on fire? It’s so hard
2026-08-15 05:08:25
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Æ :
You know too much
2026-08-19 23:57:29
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nikkih92_ :
Cutting people off if their not healthy for you is the best whether you have bpd or not. It’s better to be alone if that means you can live a healthy life. I’m at the point in my life if people leave then they leave. Fearing abandonment won’t stop it from happening so I have no fear.
2026-08-10 04:15:22
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:3 :
bpd is a curse 😁
2026-08-08 18:53:29
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Hypno_weaver :
I use to respond to every message under a minute. I was that desperate to talk to anyone. I could message for hours in a moment notice, leaving everything I was doing behind. Then I keep losing friends. Now It takes me two days to respond to a single message and I always waited until I think they can't respond to me immediately. Just so I can disappear again. I don't want to get attached anymore
2026-08-08 11:35:51
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nope :
i hope im still alive at 19 so i can get diagnose i just know something is wrong with me
2026-08-09 03:20:02
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lilian :
and it helps bc i struggle with object permanence
2026-08-09 02:02:08
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Lelleeelinke :
It is still toxic as some with bpd it’s just called self sabotage and avoidance
2026-08-15 09:20:30
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Klutch :
It’s a survival skill 😩
2026-08-19 23:34:48
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Mariame :
Cause all those that cared eventually left !
2026-08-12 15:11:20
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you.love.lala :
To carry this much passion and intensity is truly exhausting😔
2026-08-15 03:49:02
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Angela :
It is toxic
2026-08-07 09:49:58
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