@wauvetalks: You matter beyond what you give #fyp

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mrs_mercybenz
Vincent Van Kgao :
COMMUNICATE then! y'all like villainising people for no reason sometimes, cuz how is the next person supposed to know you are drowning when you don't tell them, especially those thar care about you? yes they may see your behavior is different but when they ask if you okay you say you are good... nah
2026-08-17 02:45:43
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elitejohns20
️ 𝐸𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑒 𝑃. 𝐽𝑜ℎ𝑛𝑠 :
I wasn’t your therapist. It was TikTok 😂
2026-08-14 06:54:59
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fiwegg
GG 🇿🇦 🇬🇧 :
Learn to communicate that
2026-08-18 10:46:44
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wandile_umuzi25
Wandy💋 :
Anything to avoid accountability
2026-08-25 11:59:12
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bianca_n28
Bianca :
No! If you’re not okay COMMUNICATE that. People won’t guess that you’re not okay😭. Just communicate “ can’t speak right now I’m not okay”. That’s literally it! You don’t have to do a lot. Don’t make excuses for disappearing without explanation. You don’t just not show up for everyone, communicate that! That’s maturity!
2026-08-24 12:38:34
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mieteen13
C.M13 :
the timing is crazy
2026-08-12 01:01:42
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phume_hlophe
phume_hlophe :
But if you don’t communicate how am I supposed to know that you are not okay?😭😭
2026-08-16 11:57:49
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mensimahhh
Mensimah | Mental Health :
You will realise they loved you cause of the things you have to offer and not because they value you as a being ….
2026-08-11 22:03:31
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keke444dgaf
keke444dgaf :
I was raped and my own cousin tried to join in with him and idk how i feel just so hopeless
2026-08-25 11:27:55
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kofiobengnti
Kofi :
It’s about communicating. If u don’t communicate especially to those that care about u they won’t know
2026-08-16 00:05:01
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kebabz_8
Kebabz :
I feel like this is such an excuse mann. If you are not okay tell me, If we are close friends and you are not okay like you are literally going through the most tell me. you don't have to tell me what's going on. Just tell me "Friend l'm going through this and this , if you see me being distant just know l'm trying to get my things together. " How am l supposed to know that you are not okay?? when l ask if you are okay and you say yeah and l'm like l feel like you are not telling me alot about what's being going on then you are like you are really okay. Then that's really your fault mann.
2026-08-22 15:30:07
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m_i_h_n98
May :
the power of a good communication is underrated cause tell me why you have to go through difficult times alone, and you love me?
2026-08-18 12:09:59
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dhokazz
Dhokaz :
Including friendships
2026-08-18 15:55:20
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lovealways.lukho
Lukho :
Yhu ha.a sana khaume
2026-08-22 08:31:00
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akua_scarlet7
akua scarlet :
POV: your nonchalant boyfriend reposted so you think he's actually going through a lot that's why he's giving you silent treatment
2026-08-18 16:33:00
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khwezi.33
khwezi.33 :
Seek God bruh
2026-08-21 10:47:22
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bediakobaaj
AJ Bediako :
Everybody in the comment section talking about Communicate!! It’s not everything you can communicate. Sometimes you have not even come to terms with it to make it easier to even tell another. So when your friends are suddenly unable to be there for you, don’t just assume they have become bad people, sometimes ask if they are okay!
2026-08-25 19:28:56
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paula_.fv
𝓟𝓪𝓾. :
аnԝеn rеіd dіdn’t tеll mе tо rеlах. thе аnхıеtү ԛuıꮓ nаmеd thе раttеrn і ĸерt ᴄаllіng mү реrѕօnаlіtу
2026-09-20 20:16:45
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larryyysweet
Nail/lash tech in ojo :
Communication is literally telling people what you’re going through. You can’t expect someone to understand what you’re silently dealing with, and then judge their reaction when they don’t know. If something is going wrong and the person closest to you has no idea, how exactly are they supposed to show up for you? Don’t validate a behaviour or hold someone accountable for a situation you never communicated to them. People can only respond to what they know.
2026-08-21 23:14:08
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nm11275
NM :
Let’s be pragmatic here, your loved ones are not mind readers. You can’t expect them to know you’re going through something if you don’t communicate that to them. We all go through something sometimes, that’s not an excuse to shut people out and go silent on someone and expect them to know you’re going through the worst. At the same time, you can’t be mad at someone’s reaction after YOU decided to ghost them or shut them out. Being ghosted by someone you care about feels awful. Of course if you go silent without COMMUNICATING, that leaves room for me to interpret it in different ways. You can’t make me seem like the villain here simply because of my reaction to you ghosting me if you didn’t COMMUNICATE !!!
2026-09-03 14:17:29
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demiladesmart_23
Demmy_23🍷 :
Thank you for this, i have to go break up with her now…you just explained who she is without even meeting her yet, she gets mad at me for not being able to give her what she can’t give herself and when i tried to explain to her she got madd, ignored me for days , call me names…there was this day she sent me some money to keep for her, then the same day, i jokingly sent her a picture of this nice wristwatch i’ve always wanted and ask if she could get it for me, she asked me to use the money and I’m like are you sure about it? She said yeah, guess what, i got these collections of the watches, one for me and the other for her with my money, she was so happy. Few days later we had misunderstanding, she got unreasonable and furious, then she said, why must it be when she sent me money is when i needed to get the wristwatch, definitely she won’t, never and can’t ask me to keep money for her anymore, that statement broke me, guess what what, i showed her the exact account with the money untouched, because i gave her my other bank account that i don’t have any money in, she was stunned and couldn’t say anything, meanwhile the watches i got for both of us is 5X the amount she saved with me. I immediately sent her the money and guess what, she never apologized for that but since then, i stop getting her stuffs. Another reason why i stopped sending her a money is, she said “is it the little money i gave her is actually money? Meanwhile the amount she called little, are somehow my last card, money that i have to ask my dad for it, money i had to take up a job that doesn’t worth the pay, sometimes i have to ask someone to loan me without letting her know all these. Somedays i told her how business has been going, the bills I’ve got to sort and how broke I’m at the moment and unable to come up with the money, guess what, few minutes later she asked me to give her money for something and I gotta find means to get the money for her.
2026-08-16 22:59:57
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kimmipooh08
kimmipooh08 :
how about communicating!!!!
2026-08-25 01:28:47
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justplayerrrrs
Peace.uche :
Don’t blame us either we can’t read mind and you do that to others unknowingly
2026-08-11 23:40:13
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evaispret
osaah :
Mind you, if the person is more important to you…learn how to communicate. You can ask for a moment and I’ll be okay as trusted friend, you don’t ghost me without any communication. It’ll start making my days sad too. Your won survival has come first yes, but you always cannot work it alone. Tow heads are better than one. You don’t ruin a good relationship you have with someone because you chose to fight your battles yourself when you could’ve asked. If the burden is too unbearable, communication should always be a key. Your situation affects the people who love you genuinely
2026-08-16 16:14:17
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giftolife26
Fancy 👑🦁 :
That’s why communication is important. People can’t read your mind. You want people to see and understand your pain, but if you don’t communicate it to them, how would they know what you’re going through? We all have our own issues that we’re dealing with, but sometimes, when we try to communicate with one another, it helps the relationship. When you keep everything to yourself, go through things alone, and start ignoring everyone, you can end up destroying friendships without even realizing it.
2026-08-17 13:14:29
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