10 signs you’re NOT the toxic one. You’re the victim who finally reacted. 1️⃣ You replay fights wondering if YOU’RE the problem. Toxic people never do that. Ever. 2️⃣ You apologize even when you were the one hurt. They apologize only when there’s an audience. 3️⃣ Your “outbursts” only exist AFTER hours of being poked, dismissed, or gaslit. 4️⃣ You feel guilty setting the smallest boundary. They rage at any boundary you set. 5️⃣ You’ve googled “am I the narcissist?” Actual narcissists don’t lose sleep over that question. 6️⃣ You lower your voice to keep peace. They raise theirs to keep power. 7️⃣ You remember every cruel thing you’ve ever said. They “don’t remember” every cruel thing they did. 8️⃣ You’ve changed a hundred times trying to fix it. They’ve changed nothing and blame you anyway. 9️⃣ You feel relief when they’re gone, then guilt for feeling it. Abusers don’t feel guilty about relief. They feel robbed of supply. 🔟 You’re reading this list scared you’re the toxic one. That fear IS the answer. The toxic one isn’t reading. They’re rehearsing your flaws. Hear me. Reacting to abuse doesn’t make you an abuser. A scream after years of silence isn’t toxicity. It’s a smoke alarm finally going off. If you’re sick of being called “just as bad” for REACTING to what they started, message me HEAL and check your DMs. I’ll send you the blueprint that ends the confusion for good, so you never have to wonder who the problem was again. #reactiveabuse #narcissisticabuse #narcissist #viral #Love - @mightyyyymouse