@lorenaschuth: 🌹 DM me ‘CHOSEN’ to learn about becoming the woman who expects to be chosen through my 1:1 mentorship Recreate Your Self®.⁣ ⁣ ⁣ My client used to micromanage her thoughts & apply dating strategies... because she thought it was going to get her the kind of love that makes her feel chosen. ❤️‍🔥⁣ ⁣ But her attempts led to anxiety & the assumption she needed to “heal more” to find love.⁣ ⁣ ⁣ It left her in an endless loop of staying in the same non-committal situations because:⁣ ⁣ 😬 She was more focused on “doing it right” than on becoming the woman who feels chosen BEFORE the relationship arrives⁣ ⁣ 😬 She overanalysed her thoughts, actions & emotions, trying hard to react “correctly”, leading to connections that didn’t allow her to be herself⁣ ⁣ 😬 She kept trying to feel chosen without having access to that state, leading to self-blame⁣ ⁣ ⁣⁣ It’s not that your thoughts, actions & behaviour in relationship don’t matter.⁣ ⁣ Your assumptions have a big impact on the way you show up.⁣ ⁣ ⁣ But mindset work & dating advice from an identity of “I am not chosen in love”… still leave you feeling unchosen.⁣ ⁣ You don’t magically “manifest” the relationship you want by thinking the right thoughts or doing the right things.⁣ ⁣ ⁣ When you get your nervous system & self concept aligned with the version of you who simply expects to be chosen… all the right thoughts, actions, states & behaviours will come without you having to try!⁣ ⁣ You no longer have to “try to set boundaries”… You EMBODY the boundaries & reality matches up with who you are.⁣ ⁣ ⁣ This is what you’ll experience through the work we do in RYS®. ⁣ ⁣ You'll become the woman who naturally feels chosen & claimed in love… and dating strategies, manifestation techniques & infinite healing loops become redundant. The kind of love that makes you feel exhale in relief becomes available to you. 🌬️⁣ ⁣ 🌹 DM me ‘CHOSEN’ to learn more about RYS.⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ #selfconcept #choseninlove #manifestlove #identityshift #peoplepleasing

lorena | self concept coach

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