SHASHA SEI
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Shyane Asher ✨☦︎ :
That’s exactly what it is manipulation
2026-08-06 22:05:51
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squid :
“I just won’t joke with u then” ok don’t 😂😂
2026-08-08 23:32:17
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Sienna :
it’s redirecting the blame onto you so that you think you’re too sensitive and therefore they don’t have to reflect on their behaviour
2026-08-06 21:54:53
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haleyydxo :
Or “I’m sorry I’m such a terrible person”
2026-08-07 15:08:11
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Destiny :
It makes you feel like you’re overreacting. But it’s extremely immature to deflect in a situation that only requires you to hear the person out and communicate about the issue. Sometimes you really have to cut those people off
2026-08-07 05:09:36
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augustalllyear :
It is manipulation and it is condescending. Instead of considering your feelings, they take it as a personal attack.
2026-08-07 05:38:42
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thatguybriggs :
Let’s not lie most of us have done this before and vice versa
2026-08-07 12:14:23
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izzy🪐 :
They’re manipulating you sis pull your energy away from them completely
2026-08-07 11:02:45
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whatshetalknboutnow :
This literally happened with me and my friends because one of them kept touching my partner and i set a boundary and the response to me was “well don’t come around anymore “
2026-08-07 15:09:15
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𝒰𝒸𝒽𝑒✨ :
That person have been demoted to good acquaintance my peace over anything
2026-08-06 19:30:54
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the_baneful_bum :
It’s manipulation
2026-08-07 14:37:24
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Usernameabuser :
A friend laughed when she saw me and said “you ALWAYS wear that same dress.” Later I explained how that made me feel (I’ve gained a lot of weight and only have one dress to wear and don’t have enough money to buy more) and she said “I’m never giving you a compliment again because people really read into them and I’ll never know if they’re going to be somehow offended.” Yuck. Friendship over. If I’m not safe to tell you that you hurt my feelings, we’re not true friends
2026-08-09 00:09:41
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E :
It’s actually a manipulation tactic, whether they know it or not
2026-08-08 14:55:00
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thimna sogiba :
This just triggered me😭if you allow this kind of manipulation long enough, you will definitely lose all kinds of sense.
2026-08-07 14:26:27
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user3678260495 :
It’s just gaslighting to make you feel like you’re sensitive
2026-08-07 12:30:29
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Mae 💞🪽 :
It feels like manipulation bc that’s exactly what it is.
2026-08-07 15:58:27
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Tosin :
Slme people do this intentionally to bypass your boundary so that they can continue to harm you in that way and more! It’s sooo manipulating
2026-08-07 16:40:10
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Chic French :
It’s literally manipulation
2026-08-07 19:37:45
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ez :
‘ that’s how I usually joke , I now know not to do that to you ‘? Actually makes me mad
2026-08-08 08:22:57
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Chelssarchives :
And then they call you sensitive and when you shut up they claim you’re doing too much???!
2026-08-08 22:52:09
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TP :
this rly confuses me, because when they come to me i understand so i don’t get why they don’t understand
2026-08-07 11:24:55
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nia :
this why i struggle so much with setting my own boundaries.. ever since i was little bro.
2026-08-07 04:03:06
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Tima :
my head genuinely explodes when people do this
2026-08-07 16:52:54
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Carraeion :
I tell people that blocking / cutting people off who cross your boundaries is self care.
2026-08-11 13:09:41
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rainingtrees system🌈🌲 :
Subconsciously or not, they are punishing you socially. They’re not emotionally mature. Disengage with those people. There is no way to explain your way out of it. They *don’t* want to work on themself.
2026-08-07 15:28:29
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