@coach.ryan0: Not every avoidant does this. But if someone has a revolving door of ‘just friends,’ keeps exes on standby, gets defensive about inappropriate friendships, and always seems to need backup validation… that’s not emotional availability. You deserve someone who doesn’t keep a bullpen while calling you their priority. 👀 #A#AvoidantAttachmentE#EmotionalAvailabilityR#RelationshipAdviceA#AttachmentTheoryDatingPsychology

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anuheaz808
Anuhea :
My ex was “friends” with talking stages, old hookups, exes, coworkers etc
2026-08-06 22:16:38
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abgalatlas
Girth Brooks :
An avoidant is just a narcasist.
2026-08-07 01:51:47
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1111freespirit
1111Kirsten🇨🇦 :
Those "friends" are clearly just as damaged as the avoidant to participate in that dynamic.
2026-08-06 22:34:29
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missash03
Ashley 🫶🏻 :
I just messaged said friend and told her about our relationship. He was in one with her too. BUSTED
2026-08-08 19:25:07
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lilbabyapple
lilbabyapple :
Is he an avoidant or just a Gemini
2026-08-07 01:02:54
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jgccjjkk
_phoenix_meant to rise :
I think you are referring to fearful avoidants
2026-08-06 20:22:21
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trailoflife
Paul Spencer :
So true! She remained in contact with an ex for the entire length of our relationship. When I brought it up, I was in the wrong. She was really good at DARVO.
2026-08-06 19:53:21
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horn_82
Horn :
We need to start calling them what they truly are. They are machiavellians, not avoidants
2026-08-07 01:14:37
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huneybunny99
huneybunny99 :
Triangulation
2026-08-07 02:34:24
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hbowen88
Haybay :
My ex always made a point to say he NEVER crosses a line with “friends” sure sure
2026-08-10 00:47:54
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isaac.1739943
Isaac :
I hate her mum for making her think she’s not enough
2026-08-20 10:55:01
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relleretouch
Relle Retouch :
Do they ever heal
2026-08-07 13:09:51
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chunkybumblebees
Averi :
Every. Fucking. Time. He was cheating on snap, discord, Facebook, text, oh and I caught him having hinge.
2026-08-07 22:23:21
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samohuncho
HunchoVibes :
crazy my ex was just like this word for word, having so many friends and making new ones every two weeks.
2026-08-10 13:47:57
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lizreils
lizreils :
Yes always a woman and he will chat all the time but won’t do that for me
2026-08-07 00:45:45
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itsdesm
Desss 🇲🇽 :
This is so triggering 😭
2026-08-07 12:10:36
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outlandadventures
Outlanders :
Either the female friend that caused the argument, or a male backup they get a dopamine hit from
2026-08-09 07:28:28
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haley.ridgway
Haley R :
Buddies
2026-08-06 21:51:03
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no_where_girl91
No_Where_Girl :
Yeah…. And he’s sleeping with them too!!! 😪😪😪😪 learned that one the hard way
2026-08-13 12:59:25
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user1005112013032
user1005112013032 :
I was his “friend” but still kept sleeping with me and went on dates while he was entertaining the girl and then he kicked me out when he was ready to fly her to him. I feel bad she didn’t know a thing he said he missed her while I was literally right next to him. I learned it hard way. I thought he would choose me if I stay no matter what.
2026-09-15 15:43:08
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danewolfdk
Danewolf :
Not avoidance, narcissistic
2026-08-21 07:56:10
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introstudiosndesign
Vee :
Nobody wants me. I was just responding because they texted me 1st.
2026-08-27 17:07:15
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derwerland
.WLD :
Average avoidant
2026-08-08 16:33:47
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renaemadison
Pink Panther 🐆 :
That was my ex
2026-08-07 18:13:18
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nadizadeh
Nadi Zadeh :
Absolutely is right,he wanted to keep his exes just as a friend and I didn’t expect ,and he blamed me always as a controller and sensitive and paranoid person 😔
2026-08-19 12:53:40
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