@coach.ryan0: Not every avoidant does this. But if someone has a revolving door of ‘just friends,’ keeps exes on standby, gets defensive about inappropriate friendships, and always seems to need backup validation… that’s not emotional availability. You deserve someone who doesn’t keep a bullpen while calling you their priority. 👀 #A#AvoidantAttachmentE#EmotionalAvailabilityR#RelationshipAdviceA#AttachmentTheoryDatingPsychology
My ex was “friends” with talking stages, old hookups, exes, coworkers etc
2026-08-06 22:16:38
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Girth Brooks :
An avoidant is just a narcasist.
2026-08-07 01:51:47
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1111Kirsten🇨🇦 :
Those "friends" are clearly just as damaged as the avoidant to participate in that dynamic.
2026-08-06 22:34:29
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Ashley 🫶🏻 :
I just messaged said friend and told her about our relationship. He was in one with her too. BUSTED
2026-08-08 19:25:07
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lilbabyapple :
Is he an avoidant or just a Gemini
2026-08-07 01:02:54
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_phoenix_meant to rise :
I think you are referring to fearful avoidants
2026-08-06 20:22:21
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Paul Spencer :
So true! She remained in contact with an ex for the entire length of our relationship. When I brought it up, I was in the wrong. She was really good at DARVO.
2026-08-06 19:53:21
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Horn :
We need to start calling them what they truly are. They are machiavellians, not avoidants
2026-08-07 01:14:37
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huneybunny99 :
Triangulation
2026-08-07 02:34:24
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Haybay :
My ex always made a point to say he NEVER crosses a line with “friends” sure sure
2026-08-10 00:47:54
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Isaac :
I hate her mum for making her think she’s not enough
2026-08-20 10:55:01
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Relle Retouch :
Do they ever heal
2026-08-07 13:09:51
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Averi :
Every. Fucking. Time. He was cheating on snap, discord, Facebook, text, oh and I caught him having hinge.
2026-08-07 22:23:21
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HunchoVibes :
crazy my ex was just like this word for word, having so many friends and making new ones every two weeks.
2026-08-10 13:47:57
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lizreils :
Yes always a woman and he will chat all the time but won’t do that for me
2026-08-07 00:45:45
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Desss 🇲🇽 :
This is so triggering 😭
2026-08-07 12:10:36
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Outlanders :
Either the female friend that caused the argument, or a male backup they get a dopamine hit from
2026-08-09 07:28:28
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Haley R :
Buddies
2026-08-06 21:51:03
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No_Where_Girl :
Yeah…. And he’s sleeping with them too!!! 😪😪😪😪 learned that one the hard way
2026-08-13 12:59:25
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user1005112013032 :
I was his “friend” but still kept sleeping with me and went on dates while he was entertaining the girl and then he kicked me out when he was ready to fly her to him. I feel bad she didn’t know a thing he said he missed her while I was literally right next to him. I learned it hard way. I thought he would choose me if I stay no matter what.
2026-09-15 15:43:08
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Danewolf :
Not avoidance, narcissistic
2026-08-21 07:56:10
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Vee :
Nobody wants me. I was just responding because they texted me 1st.
2026-08-27 17:07:15
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.WLD :
Average avoidant
2026-08-08 16:33:47
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Pink Panther 🐆 :
That was my ex
2026-08-07 18:13:18
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Nadi Zadeh :
Absolutely is right,he wanted to keep his exes just as a friend and I didn’t expect ,and he blamed me always as a controller and sensitive and paranoid person 😔
2026-08-19 12:53:40
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