@datingcoachdiehl: one of the most reliable ways to avoid burnout imo is just managing expectations (and thus managing disappointment), so keep on truckin tbh #datingtips #datingcoach #makingfriendsasadults #datingapps #onlinedating
I showed up, I socialized, and idk what I'm doing wrong. I asked my friends from home what they think is wrong with me, and nobody can give me any insight
2026-08-07 03:46:59
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Swag Tastik :
The worst people to try to become friends with are people with preexisting friend groups. They have no incentive to actually prioritize you and you will just exhaust yourself trying to build a connection with someone who literally doesn't have the capacity for new connections.
2026-08-10 01:55:46
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Kura :
As an adult you should not have another adult adopt you if you want any meaningful relationships in my opinion
2026-08-07 17:18:19
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K :
It really does take time!! But yes you’re right some people are busy and already have groups and eventually you get closer but it takes time for both of yall honestly to shift your life to make time for building a new friendship sometimes
2026-08-07 17:09:34
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Cheezyalfredo :
none of this is a guarantee, and it takes money and/or time to establish that presence. I'd often run out of money, bad club/meetups, and don't have common socializing habits (drinking, sports) to pursue familiarity.
I would like to admit this reality to those giving off generic "be yourself" advice, have them admit how they used friend groups and social habits instead of starting truly alone.
2026-08-09 09:11:11
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Glass.House :
I have autism
2026-08-08 14:34:11
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Megan :
Thanks for this !,
2026-08-09 14:33:09
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RonRon :
My philosophy is to just completely give up on the idea that you need friends. And just do whatever the fuck makes you happy.
2026-08-08 08:25:21
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