therhyscolee
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bearbear123 :
They run away from responsibility and accountability
2026-08-15 03:14:58
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f🌙 :
Yes feed my delusions
2026-08-08 12:56:35
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taxfraudfairyyy :
as an avoidant this is true
2026-08-13 01:07:27
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Bachscat :
Avoidant is a sugarcoat term for soft narcissists
2026-08-13 11:16:25
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cassievailmonday :
They are afraid of someone having expectations of them that they know they cannot meet.
2026-08-19 06:09:10
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gotcha12345678901 :
they want the relationship with you until they realize that they can't stop hurting you in numerous ways and so they would much rather leave you than continue to be a failure when they could just correct their behavior
2026-08-15 18:23:13
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Mfat :
Sorry. But i don't believe in this anymore. No matter what, no person will leave and hurt the one he truly loves and respect.
2026-08-11 16:36:29
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B :
How can you love someone and avoid them? Shouldn’t you crave them?
2026-08-11 18:38:05
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Veroooo :
Nah sometimes they just don’t like you gang
2026-08-08 11:11:32
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Smile :
Why are you calling me out like that?
2026-08-19 15:49:52
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Emma🫒 :
Aaaand back into his reposts I go
2026-08-18 16:36:51
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🌊 :
I’m a former avoidant and i didn’t ghost people because i had feelings for them. For me it’s a childhood wound caused by my parents. Receiving affection made me feel good at the beginning, but then i’d realise I’m genuinely incapable of truly reciprocating it (or believing that i deserve that affection), so that’s when i’d ghost and leave. In friendships and relationships. Avoidance also has a lot to do with terrible self-esteem, despite the fact that avoidants may seem confident on the outside. I think that reducing it to “the avoidant likes you too much and that’s why they’re running away” is a bit misleading lol. It’s more of a pattern/way of thinking (which i’m now aware of, but the trauma and the childhood wound remain).
2026-08-10 19:49:05
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cherylejuanitapoprilo :
I am a Psychologist and this is true if they are emotional truggered by you they run away 🤔🤔🤔
2026-08-10 11:14:55
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Bloodiness :
I am avoidant and I know that, I don’t care about ppls thoughts on social media at all actually.. You can feel however you feel about avoidants, Bc talking down on them will definitely help. 😂 like huhh?
2026-08-18 14:29:22
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Noctis :
not people demonizing people who are avoidant. we can’t help it, most of us are self aware of it and are genuinely trying to change but it’s really hard. our brains are hard wired this way mainly due to trauma. i’m not saying you HAVE to stick by an avoidant, pick yourself first ALWAYS. but can we please stop demonizing them? thanks🖤
2026-08-19 02:28:09
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Susu :
Hate to break it to you but as an avoidant, I literally run from anyone. As soon as they use the word "us" I'm out the door. I get anxious about people I've talked to once, so
2026-08-07 13:57:19
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Zuliana Zainal :
Is it true avoidant ppl faking a scenario that they like someone else just to test the girl they’ve been ghosting for a while.
2026-08-12 05:10:19
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✨️ :
yeah but knowing all that doesn't make it hurt any less...
2026-08-10 19:18:52
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moonwhispers. :
why does he offer a friendship then after getting my hopes up, talking about our memories for two weeks
2026-08-11 18:45:04
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ashlie :
Ok cool. Do they come back though? Or am I gonna feel this pain forever?
2026-08-16 04:09:37
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🧸 :
why would u plant this in my head im crazy
2026-08-12 13:38:32
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Susi✨🌙 :
He found someone else, let’s be honest
2026-08-14 00:21:14
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Miapnco🇦🇺 :
Either way,, YOU DON'T NEED THAT BS IN YOUR LIFE. Get as far away from them as you can. They are what they are forever, and will NEVER be what you want. 😘 Much love xx, from someone who wasted 20yrs of her life waiting to be 'seen' by one. Go, and never look back 🌷 x
2026-08-11 12:40:29
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gabriel•le ✨ :
Depends if they're dismissive or fearful avoidants
2026-08-11 05:18:38
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