@innerworldtherapy: What Most People Get WRONG about 9 Year Olds: Tricky Behaviors Explained by Child Development. 9 is a very tricky age marked by disequilibrium and deep into individual mastery territory while also dabbling in peer influence: the perfect recipe for all of that self-criticism in ages 6-8 to go outwards towards others. They do have increased independence and maturity, but are fiery in their impatience/persistence but so incredibly vulnerable from their changing bodies. You all really looked forward to hearing about this age!! #childdevelopment #childpsychology #mindfulparenting #thirdgrade #fourthgrade

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lka3723
lka3723 :
any tips to get my 9 year old to stop getting out of his seat at school & making random noises? the lack of impulse control will be the end of me 🫠
2026-09-04 20:05:35
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bhough44
B Hough :
So you’re saying that I’m not raising a narcissist who blames everyone for everything? Because some days that’s what it feels like no matter how many conversations we have about it 😭
2026-08-07 16:22:24
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emloguex
Em 🖤 :
my kids just turned 7 and 9 😭
2026-08-07 02:39:51
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artsykel
Kelly :
Is this why my 9 year is nit picking every single thing my 6 year old does??
2026-08-07 03:12:24
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jenniferthetraveler
Jennifer | travel & birds :
Honestly 9 has been the hardest age for me to navigate 😭
2026-08-07 14:10:37
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erikarusanovaite
OrdinaryAngel🫶 :
Can you speak more about boys at 9-10 year old transitional psychology shifts. I struggle with my son being really difficult at times and intentionally pushing me to my limits and make me feel very triggered with blatant disrespectful attitude. He is neurodiverse and I guess challenging behaviour should be expected..
2026-08-07 08:57:24
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rosiehale3
Rosie Hale :
the anger at 9 my god it's testing me 🤣 he has such a short fuse 🤣
2026-08-07 09:19:10
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catw.b
catherine 🎐 :
i’m a camp counselor for 8/9 yo & i’ve been waiting for you to reach this age for a while :)) definitely helps to keep these things in mind & you phrase it so well!
2026-08-07 02:07:56
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perkypamperlady
NotMyName :
as a mom of 9 & 11 .... plz send halp 😭
2026-08-12 02:44:04
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sasoferguse
sasofergs :
I feel defeated sometimes because I've worked hard to talk about my kid positively her whole life and it's sad to see the negative self talk coming out of no where, but I guess it's developmentally part of the age?
2026-09-02 20:48:14
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leximarshall0731
Lexi Little :
And I’m guessing this is all heightened with children with adhd 😅🫥
2026-09-01 16:25:35
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nells387
Nells :
9 has been really challenging for me. My son challenges everything and he’s so dang emotional, at least w me. He seems to focus on the bad parts of a situation versus the good. He’s in the “what if” phase and it drives me nuts! Also, taking accountability is really hard for him at this stage, he def plays the blame game ugh
2026-08-12 15:02:39
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jojoey.goes.dutch
Joanna 🌍 🇺🇸 to 🇳🇱 :
Nearly turned 10 year old, 8 year old, and 4 year old in my house. We have alll the stages 😅
2026-08-07 11:32:12
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itswhitneyrobnow
Whitney Roberts :
My 8 year old seems to have more in common with what a 9 year old is supposed to be experiencing - is this normal?
2026-08-15 17:48:43
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waffleswalter
Waffles Walter :
Very helpful for my 9 year old!
2026-08-07 03:52:06
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sway.8717
Alissa Daigle :
Where can I read more on how to navigate this age!
2026-08-09 03:07:47
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shawnaag92
Shawna :
What about 9 year olds with ADHD
2026-08-07 22:49:54
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hiiiyahhh
____literallyhiyahhh :
Can you talk about boys transition from 9-10? I’m really finding this difficult to navigate.
2026-08-07 18:56:33
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annadiamond42
AnnaDiamond :
Would it make sense to have a 9 year old debate the answer no every time it’s given about everything? So like anytime we need to give my son a no answer he debates us about is this normal?
2026-09-01 03:52:03
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shelbytello1
shelbytello1 :
How do we help them navigate this? My 9, almost 10 year old is going through this exactly and we’ve been struggling!
2026-08-08 16:20:21
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the13th_
JJ :
Are there any books that can help with knowing about stages. I have a 9 year old and 5 year old
2026-08-07 12:19:22
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marianaumburg
Maria Naumburg :
Would this be different in a child with ADHD?
2026-08-17 00:35:43
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lauraaaisbelox
Laura 🫧 :
Do you know about any sleep changes at this age? My daughter is 9 and a few weeks ago I noticed shes not sleeping maybe 45 min at a time and will be up for 30 then all over again. she also cries at night In bed because she can’t sleep. 😭
2026-09-01 17:55:28
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ooooner4
ambersuebell :
This is so helpful. Can you do 10 and 11 also?
2026-08-07 11:19:05
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jesusisking.___.___.___
JesusisKing :
How can we support best?
2026-08-07 06:22:51
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