his idea of nikki hates sunshine. he sees her as a cool, edgy unachievable girl, when she’s actually bubbly, fun and magnetic. he doesn’t know her
2026-08-07 19:08:49
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silasr0ckstarr :
not to mention he ended up getting something for HIMSELF
2026-08-07 17:26:58
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⋆˚꩜。⋆ Morpheus ⋆˚꩜。⋆ :
It’s actually not just the eye of ra but the eye of ra and the eye of Horus! Sorry to be annoying lol!
2026-08-07 04:58:17
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meg ᛉ :
not to mention citrine is also heavilyyy tied to unblocking your creativity and imagination. she was in the middle of writing a book. it would’ve been SUCH a good gift whether he would’ve intended it to be or not
2026-08-07 15:58:38
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m0thr0tt :
It’s really depressing when people notice these things about Nikki because the audience picked up on details about Nikki, her personality, interests, etc in an hour, when someone who was supposedly in love with her never noticed . It’s so clear that he couldn’t care less about her
2026-08-07 16:18:26
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KRYPTO :
Also when the store employee asks about the necklace he holds up the One Wish Willow and says, "I like this." He buys it instead. Not.."Nikki would like this"..."I like this." Bear was so self absorbed he couldn't tell Sarah had a crush on him...he didn't know his best friend had been hooking up with Nikki on the dl...they never would have lasted even if Nikki liked him back. That line in the car "you're the only person that I get to really talk to about this stuff.." she wants a genuine connection. Bear wanted the idea of being with her.
2026-08-07 14:32:53
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Ifykyk :
also if yoy like crystals, usualy those people arent picky. she would have thought it was a sweet gesture even it she didnt like that one
2026-08-07 04:02:33
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xX henassie Xx :
not only did he get her a shit gift, he ended up using it himself anyway. i rewatched the movie yesterday and realized bear was actually the villain the entire time, not just at the end of the movie.
2026-08-07 14:12:20
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charlotte.r.white :
Notice that the people seeing all this stuff are mostly women, meanwhile I watch it with a male friend and he just sat there talking about how crazy Nikki was. Red flags flying all over the place.
2026-08-08 16:22:55
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doggoash :
I also thought it was worth noting that when she BEGGED him to kill her he was like “wow so you’d rather die than date me” he was selfish arrogant and thought he deserved Nikki and took away her body autonomy I could never ever defend bear
2026-08-08 04:56:21
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jakelake5302 :
I think Nikki would've loved the necklace and shw would've loved his sappy love confession from the beginning of the movie. She was writing a love story after all.
2026-08-07 08:09:10
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𝙢𝙞𝙡𝙪 :
I haven't watched obsession yet but everything i hear about it makes me think it's a very realistic representation of how men learn to love women. they don't. they conceive us as just this weird concept that should be attracted to them unconditionally
2026-08-08 03:51:28
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000October000 :
She wore that necklace for YEARS and he couldn't even describe it in order to buy a replacement!!! He was never her friend!!!
2026-08-07 12:30:54
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Alaska ❄️ :
"To be loved is to be seen and known."
And he was only focused on his own feelings.
2026-08-07 19:33:58
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c4nnibalg1rlfriend :
She also later gifts bear a tiger eye which means she already owned one which means yes she would’ve liked it
2026-08-07 22:47:42
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TakiFox :
the fact everyone else knew shes didnt like her dad in the friend group but he didn't. he truly never listened to her or was close to her
2026-08-12 14:50:30
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♯ ⋮ 𝄞 tvfhd༉ .ᐟ ★ :
THIS. People say the first bad sign of bear was the “what’s so bad about being with me scene”, but it started way early. Things that showed how he didn’t actually care about Nikki, really.
2026-08-07 20:00:54
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JB :
Mind you. The whole reason he went to the shop to begin with is because she lost her crystal necklace. She would’ve loved it
2026-08-07 18:20:41
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Startrial_Scrolls :
she literally dropped her crystal necklace while on the phone with him. he heard how frustrated she was after dropping it down the drain and he STILL didn’t get her a new one. he got her something HE found interesting— he thought he loved her but he didn’t at all. to be loved is to be known and he did NOT know nikki at all
2026-08-07 19:51:07
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nicole :
why would she hate the necklace when it was meant to replace her necklace she lost is what i didn’t understand
2026-08-12 11:19:37
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Lizard 🔥🇺🇸🔥 :
To be fair that was only because Inde already had then when filming. But holy shit, amazing observation, I haven't seen this anywhere yet and I've been watching theories for months. My favorite "he didn't even really know her" detail is that both Sarah and Ian immediately knew she wasn't on good terms with her dad, and Bear had no clue.
2026-08-07 05:05:26
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Hanna :
The fact that both Ian and Sarah immediately mention that Nikki hates her dad when Bear mentions him but he didn't know.
2026-08-11 15:47:21
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La quirosita :
And if I remember correctly, it was also made of tiger's eye stone, which is associated with autonomy, protection from the evil eye and curses. How Bear never gave it to her and kept it can be interpreted as he kept her freedom and how she became unprotected from the curse of the wishing willow
2026-08-08 21:46:26
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aries stellium :
This stuck out to me too….Even if she didn’t love the specific crystal in the necklace it would have been an actually THOUGHTFUL gift…But his whole understanding of who Nikki is is based on second hand info from wr
2026-08-07 16:41:39
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Kailey5599 :
No the entire movie me and my bf were like if he had given her the necklace and just yk ACTUALLY BEEN HONEST he might’ve had a better chance with Nikki
2026-08-07 13:06:55
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