Kelly Unfiltered
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Friday 07 August 2026 06:09:27 GMT
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Xc239949 :
Hear me out: decenter men
2026-08-07 07:56:22
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StephV22 :
Where are you looking for these men?
2026-09-18 11:22:20
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ItsNic :
Your first step is asking yourself, would the guys that I’m so attracted to, be just as attracted to me. Are the men that I’m looking for, dating women that look like me? If yes, then it might be a personality issue. If you answered no, then you need to adjust your standards and maybe lower. Don’t lead with the fantasy of what you think a relationship should look like. Be realistic if you want someone to truly love you. It’s a recipe that you have to figure out. Good luck.
2026-08-07 10:54:40
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carmandthelady :
become a match for what you want to attract
2026-08-07 12:08:08
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Susan0303 :
You have to step out of your typical type of look. It took me a long time to find my current partner and each time, I gave someone different a chance and got to meet a lot of great men. It’s not all about the outward appearance. Have patience
2026-08-07 11:14:48
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mag :
Glow up girl
2026-08-07 20:20:20
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Tristan :
Honestly, your feelings are valid. I think outside looking in as someone who hasn’t dated before it’s easy to get caught up in the physical attraction of others instead of who they might be etc. While physical attraction is great, that can change so easily over time. When you find someone you truly like as a person, the physical attraction grows more naturally. I’ve dated guys who were very attractive but personality wise they were complete tools and the “physical attraction” I once had for them easily faded away and they didn’t look attractive to me anymore because I knew who they were as people. My advise would be to continue working on yourself, continue to be open to people that maybe aren’t in your circle of “types” and really get to know people and see where things go. I know lowering your standards and being more realistic is the main advise from everyone but I think if those men are truly the only ones you want, you just have to really change yourself to be some of their types and find out if it’s truly worth it for you in the end. I hope you find what you’re looking for ❤️
2026-08-07 15:08:08
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glo :
Stay humble and give the guys that want to talk to you a chance.
2026-08-07 10:45:08
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char :
I know this isn't what anyone feeling this wants to hear, but as someone who has felt this way in the past, a relationship will NEVER fill that whole in your chest. Even if you married your dream guy, you'd eventually start to feel empty again. You have to find your center in yourself and your very worthy, very important life.
2026-08-07 20:21:34
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Blockhead🗿 :
You’re not broken, as humans we crave human connection. As much as ppl say to focus on yourself and love yourself, there is nothing wrong with wanting romantic love and companionship. You are not desperate or broken or needy, you are simply human🫶🏼 Sending you love as someone who also knows what it’s like to feel the way you feel right now❤️
2026-08-07 09:04:15
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User9394959592020 :
decenter men and love yourself and focus on yourself and do all the things you want to do without a man.
2026-08-07 09:50:17
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🎀 Hannah 🎀 :
I feel the same!!
2026-08-07 14:00:57
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Hey :
You aren’t an ugly girl. You have beautiful features and you can glow up HARD if you want to. Skincare, gym, get your color analysis done, get some styling advice (or find a celebrity or influencer with similar features/coloring and copy their style). Once you feel great about yourself then you become magnetic and you will attract all kinds of relationships into your life, even romantic ones 😌
2026-08-07 21:06:38
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Nosey Flor :
Have you tried giving a chance to sb that maybe isn’t exactly your type? My boyfriend wasn’t my type but I ended up falling in love with him 🫶🏼
2026-08-07 07:26:49
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lilwhiteprincess50 :
You know what’s super sexy? Someone with confidence that level up. When you are happy with you, people sense your energy and you attract all kinds of people in your orbit.
2026-08-07 16:54:31
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Feniksa Czyta :
Just don't listen to all those mean comments. People who have never been chronically single in their whole life will never know how damaging to mental health that is. I also tried to listen to all those "smart" comments like "give a guy a chance" (funny how it only works one way...) and guess what? I felt super anxious because I felt guilty that I didn't feel attracted to guys on dating apps etc. It's just not possible to force yourself to feel something. I wish you all the best, take care! 💖
2026-09-15 20:04:05
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Kait :
"Love" is a game, Kelly. It's not like the movies. You find someone you're attracted to, then keep choosing each other over and over and just do life with them. I just think you're expecting a lightning bolt ⚡️moment and a life change and it's just really not like that. Been married 13 years now.
2026-08-27 20:04:35
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francesca :
maybe try to make friends first. trying to find a friend is a lot easier than trying to find a boyfriend, and if you two are a good fit it’ll happen naturally. do things you enjoy (gym, hobbies, hikes, classes) and start a conversation with someone doing the same thing! you’ll already have something in common!
2026-08-10 14:41:06
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Chuck | Baddies Read 📚 :
are you on dating apps? my single friends say its so dry out there. its not just you.
2026-08-27 18:22:58
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🐰 :
glow up
2026-08-07 20:27:01
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user3769394862657 :
I feel this
2026-09-17 03:46:25
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noneya :
So when we’ve had trauma in childhood relating to self worth, our brain essentially tries to tie up “loose ends” so to speak, and that’s why you’re attracted to men that aren’t available emotionally. Look up relationship theory by Jourdan blue on google. I’m married now in large because of what I learned about my attachment style. You can change this, there is hope and I’m rooting for you 🤍
2026-09-20 13:09:33
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Julia Zabasky :
May you find your guy 🙏❤️
2026-08-07 14:10:39
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Carly3561 :
This is the first time you’ve popped up. So if there is stuff I should know and don’t I apologize. Are you self sabotaging? You say there have been people who want to be with you? Were they absolute deal breakers?
2026-08-07 13:04:12
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FiercePinkMuppet 🖤🐑 :
1 self confidence, glow yourself up girl, you got this 2 stop looking. When I stopped looking, it took awhile, but I focused on myself and he found me, almost ran into each other. In summary: 1) focus on you 2) patience . You got this girly!!
2026-08-09 23:14:00
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