@theultimatebreakupcoach: If you're thinking, *"I can't go into no contact because my ex is too stubborn. They'll never contact me if I don't,"* you're looking at it from the wrong angle. No Contact is not about trying to make someone contact you. It's about taking your power back. The moment your healing depends on whether your ex messages you, they've still got control over your emotions. People often say their ex is "too stubborn", but stubbornness doesn't stop someone reaching out if they genuinely want to. Pride only lasts so long. If someone truly wants to be in your life, they'll find a way. If they don't, you've been given an answer that no amount of chasing would ever change. Stop measuring your worth by whether your phone lights up. Start measuring it by how much peace you create when you stop chasing people who chose to walk away. If you want to understand the psychology behind No Contact, my books **The No Contact Theory** and **Silence Is Your Superpower** are available on Amazon via the link on my main page. If you have children with your ex and can't go completely no contact, **Heartbreak and Handovers** will show you how to protect your peace, set healthy boundaries and co-parent without being pulled back into the emotional chaos. #FYP #Reels #NoContact #BreakupHealing #nocontactrule

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