@adereality_55: If you are in this situation as a man, what would you do?..

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miler3166
miler :
There’s nothing he’s going to do. His wife told him about it, but he’s not interested. She has probably saved some money over time and doesn’t want it to sit idle. She believes the best investment for her future and their children is to buy a property with a mortgage, and that’s her right because it’s her money. You can’t expect her to go ahead with something you said no to and still put your name on it. Absolutely not. If you did not contributing to the mortgage don’t live there or have anything to do with the property, then it should be left entirely to her. Just make sure you don’t pay the mortgage for her. When you are ready to get your own house if needed get it or keep pay another person mortgage and call it rent
2026-08-07 09:58:02
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chemistry_196
Chemistry :
Absolutely nothing,,I will be happy she's suceeding, as long as I am not contributing to the mortgage, I have no problem with it....
2026-08-07 09:15:25
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ada_amaka22
CookwithAdaandFamily🇬🇧 :
But men buy properties with their names without putting their wives name. They will tell you it’s still ours. So she should tell the man it doesn’t matter whose name is on it, it’s still theirs😁
2026-08-07 09:10:10
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ruth07403
Ruth :
what would you yourself do?
2026-08-07 14:28:39
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amaranga511
amaranga511 :
Man was not interested in a mortgage. The woman was interested had the deposit and went on to buy in her name. There is no problem with the marriage and she is not wrong by not putting his name on it. She does not need permission or approval from her husband to do what she needs to do . She’s an adult for goodness sake
2026-08-07 15:50:44
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tessy_fab
Tessy_fab :
is it your money? it means you dont want progress. it's okay to out grow your spouse
2026-08-07 11:29:58
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justsyl007
Xxx :
I did it and got a Morgage in my name because my husband didn’t want it. He fought and quelled with me. He didn’t help me with the repayment for years.
2026-08-07 18:34:08
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bk22341
Bukola :
I won’t feel anything in as much she is doing what she ought to do for the family.
2026-08-08 14:03:40
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krissdale
Kris :
There’s no longer marriage, I can’t put up with someone I can’t trust
2026-08-26 06:07:42
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pretty.mama1277
pretty mama era :
men in the house give us your opinion
2026-08-07 21:35:29
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user6578790490660
larry :
Did she use your money or family savings, because if she uses her money what is the problem since the husband is not interested
2026-08-07 12:05:00
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stevediba2
stevediba :
No worries people often change learn to survive alone.
2026-08-07 08:13:58
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yinkathemortgagelady
Yinka Mortgage Broker UK :
As part of a mortgage application the lender will want to know details of all the adults who will be living in the property and every other adult who will be residing in the property apart from the applicant will need to sign a waiver and will be advised to seek independent legal advice. A good broker would have asked these questions much earlier in the process. It will also be picked up during conveyancing.
2026-08-07 15:52:07
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nkiruisichei
Destiny :
The man should go and get his own in his own name.
2026-08-07 11:46:20
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lakan93
Ana :
Ehh what is my business that mogages is not my business as far she can meet the bills in the house it not my business
2026-08-07 14:30:45
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oilman506
chrizz♻️ Oilman💱💱 🇳🇬 🇬🇧 :
nothing to feel
2026-08-07 08:50:18
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bestbuydealstoday
Wholesale Market :
It is her investment and there is nothing wrong in her having her own investment
2026-08-07 08:01:38
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yinkathemortgagelady
Yinka Mortgage Broker UK :
A lot of people don’t know what they are doing and later by the time they find out the reality and truth it’s sometimes too late to fix. FACT!!!!!! the fact that the property and mortgage are in the wife’s sole name does not automatically mean the husband has no entitlement to it if they divorce. always speak to professionals!!!!!
2026-08-07 15:56:25
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buzuzu83
BUZUZU :
Let her be please.She has done nothing wrong and it is an additional blessing to the family.
2026-08-10 11:10:04
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omowunmiglorious
OmowunmiGlorious :
What of men building back home and putting only their names on the documents?
2026-08-31 12:21:19
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ajikebaby1234
Ajikebaby1234 :
what consent
2026-08-29 23:54:44
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hon.otb
hon.otb :
It's okay, but I'll begin saving and planning for my future on my own. However, this won't impact my contributions to the family.
2026-08-18 09:08:49
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leomexy
LeonardoMedici :
Well she’s told you she’s no longer interested in the marriage
2026-08-28 04:39:18
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bj19582
bj :
That family have had many unresolved issues and sentiments compounded that might have resulted in this situation.
2026-08-11 16:41:33
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bestbuydealstoday
Wholesale Market :
Bravo to her
2026-08-07 08:00:54
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