Correct me if I’m wrong, but I don’t think this is the healthiest way to look at it. I think both people should always try to give 100% and if something’s bothering you, communicate it. Love and respect shouldn’t be transactional or based on “if you do this, then I’ll do that.
2026-08-08 03:49:19
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Anthony :
This is mirroring. Both are similar but reciprocation still means you initiate even if that person does it first
esp if i communicated multiple times before hand, like now i'm just gonna show you what ur doing to me, even if i really secretly don't want to.
2026-08-08 11:44:46
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c🦭 :
Ok lowk is this like a bad thing..?
2026-08-07 14:43:18
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. :
I think my worst trait is I can and will over-love somebody until they show me why they dont deserve it
2026-08-09 00:20:50
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i_hateverything :
This is being avoidant
2026-08-08 23:05:34
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. :
Everyone in the comments not realizing always giving more than someone gives u starts to get genuinely draining and makes u start overthinking and things like that
2026-08-08 15:36:05
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1 1 : 1 1 :
sometimes i give a little more than they do, and see if they reciprocate it back, and if they don't, i already know what i need to do.
2026-08-08 19:22:17
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lex :) :
I think 60-40 split is fine but usually anywhere about a 70-30 is just too much, everyone is saying it's transactional but it's also upsetting to be putting everything in to your person and being consistently let down, coming as someone who is constantly dealing with people who rarely care to respond in a timely manner, it's just disappointing
2026-08-08 23:58:00
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Z1add🇲🇦⚽ :
yoo I saw ur video 1st
2026-08-07 14:41:19
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Serenity :
Ay if you’re both thinking this way it’s doomed. Sometimes even when you want to match the energy because you’re upset, you shouldn’t.
2026-08-14 01:21:55
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Muchine :
I feel like the people that are disagreeing just dont wanna face the consequences of their actions
2026-08-08 12:45:32
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rainrain2008 :
Sometimes I feel like it’s good to be the better person sometimes. Or another direction what if that person is hurting and doesn’t wanna reach out? It doesn’t hurt to reach out. But I see wear he’s coming from
2026-08-08 12:52:06
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︎ ︎ :
this AND communication, if you dont communicate dont expect to get what you want. Obviously theres some things that are a given but instead of expecting, try and correct it first!
2026-08-09 05:49:51
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DanaWana🫦 :
Once I communicate and still see the same behavior I'm reciprocating !
2026-08-08 11:17:29
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Caterpillar :
It gets tiring when I always initiate communication. It’s better to just not talk at all if they don’t. It will prove whether they really care or not.
2026-08-08 19:24:16
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alexclcz :
But not in a petty way like I get it if something is going on and relationships aren’t always supposed to be 100% reciprocated like if they have off days
2026-08-10 20:02:48
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Jakob :
I tried to do that, but I loved the person too much to treat them the way they treated me.
2026-08-08 09:31:00
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D$money :
Treat others how you want to be treated. No one owes you anything it’s up to you to set the standards
2026-08-09 01:26:27
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⋆。˚꒰ঌ ivorygirl ໒꒱˚。⋆ :
until it comes to te person i can never be distant with
2026-08-09 12:24:27
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wook4you :
nah second i feel im not being reciprocated i just leave
2026-08-08 20:40:26
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user6582937224 :
then the relationship would be over if i followed this
2026-08-08 08:27:44
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